Showing posts with label thoughts. Show all posts
Showing posts with label thoughts. Show all posts

Friday, May 26, 2023

Cottage week...Retail and water therapy


I have been thinking about a lot of things this week.
Spending quiet time here at Quarterdeck Cottage is conducive to reflection.


The beautiful scenery fills me with immense gratitude.
Gratitude to be alive and be a witness to this natural majestic beauty.


Beach walks and Sea Glass Collecting go hand~in~hand.
My first marble found in a gorgeous turquoise blue!
I felt quite excited by this discovery...
 a small snippet of Joy.


It's the little things in my daily round that make the most difference.

I wonder if I appreciate these so much more now that I am older?
Years ago I never would have dreamed about the feeling of Joy 
that finding a marble would bring to me.


The pool has been a godsend this week.
I've been "taking to the waters."
My achy and painful joints are responding positively to water therapy.
Moving without stress on my joints while getting exercise is wonderful!

I know now that I need to find a pool at home.
I will probably return to the Athletic Club in the hotel
where I swam when I worked in James Bay.

They have a lovely pool and a hot tub...
offer daytime Aqua Fit Classes
which I can easily add to my schedule.


My 68 year old body is far from a svelte youthful form!
The bathing suit is called a Miracle Suit...
it is comfy and keeps the jiggly bits from flapping too much!

Did you see Martha Stewart on the cover of the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition?
She's 81 and looks so amazing!

I bet she had lots of fun on the photo shoot.
She's looking better and better these days.
Her skin is radiant and she looks very vibrant and healthy.


Sunshine in the morning makes me feel so happy.
Mornings would not be the same for me without a couple of tasty cups of coffee.
I do love my coffee.
Funny thing is, years ago, I drank tea in the morning...

I make time to savour the mornings.
Starting slowly
Check my socials online, play a few words games, 
perhaps read a chapter or two in my current book.
Think a bit as I gaze around the room...

When I feel ready I
do a quick tidy up in the kitchen
maybe pop a load of laundry in the wash
then I shower and get dressed for the day.

Maybe that's boring for you to read but it was an interesting exercise for me to think about what it is that I do in the morning that takes so long!!


I've been wearing my bangles more...
I took them out and gave them a good old polish.
Most of these are gifts...
from
mom, my husband, and my darling daughter.
A couple I found at thrift shops.

I popped into the local boutique here on the island.
I usually check out their new stock when they are open.
Well dear reader, it proved fruitful when I was there this week!


Not only did I have a pedicure but I found some comfy sandals.
I do love bows...


I have another pair of shoes by Bueno
they are unbelievably comfortable to wear.
These new "slides" are soft and cozy on my feet.
I haven't had a pair of white shoes in any form for many many years!
I always think white shoes are for car salesmen...
why I think that I haven't the foggiest?


So this casual top caught my eye 
and it wasn't until I tried it on that I knew it had to come home with me!
I have a soft linen skirt in a blue shade that I can pair this with as well as my jeans.
The white jeans have not made their debut yet this season...
they hang waiting in the closet...
now that there are white sandals and this cute top I think it's time.

What are you wearing this season?
Have you found anything new and exciting?

Fashion is fun and I am enjoying shopping more these days.
I think that Covid curtailed a lot of my creativity
especially with views of expanding my basic wardrobe.
As a minimalist, I don't tend to go crazy at the shops
if money and space were no issue who knows what I might be like in a shop?

Would I be rather keen and amass a huge pile at the checkout?
( Have you ever done that?)

I watched movies as a young teen where women need a helper to carry all the boxes and bags after shopping.
Those stores would be situated on an elegant avenue in Paris or New York.
I cannot recall the names of those films but they were rather fun to watch!

Well I have rambled on a bit long
more tidbits and thoughts than I had originally planned...

Oh and just before I close 
Have you been watching the coverage of  The Chelsea Garden Show?
I am totally smitten with the plants and show gardens.
It would be fun to attend in person and wander in The Grand Hall.
Have you ever attended the show?


Thank for popping by The Humble Bungalow Blog.

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~


Sunday, March 19, 2023

One of the BEST BOOKS, baking, shopping and wabi sabi.

 


Good morning from The Humble Bungalow...
it is Sunday and I am baking a loaf of sourdough bread.
The bread has become part of my weekly routine...
my husband seems to be enjoying the bread.
I loved it toasted with Bonne Maman raspberry confiture.


Life here has been quite quiet...
Having hurt my back, so for the past few weeks, I have been in a lot of pain.
Am dealing with it by attending therapeutic Yoga classes for the back.
Going for slower, shorter walks and taking Aleve to help me sleep.
I have a huge amount of empathy for people who live with chronic pain.
I am new to pain.

Shorter Walks mean fewer steps...
averaging about 5500
so have gained a few pounds in these past few weeks.


Salads to the rescue...
simple to make and very satisfying.
Lots of chewing and low in WW points.


Here are the tete a tetes planted out front in The Humble Bungalow garden.
Thank goodness that the deer don't eat them.


We filled in some gaps recently when the plants were on sale at the garden centre.
They are so sweet...cheap and cheerful!


Lucy By The Sea by Elizabeth Strout is a powerful book...
set in Maine during Covid Lucy Barton shares her everyday experiences.
The emotions and insights are very real...
Perhaps one of Strout's best books.
The story has stayed with me.
I highly recommend it.


Very casual Papillon denim jumper...
found at the shop Suzanne's in the mall.
Seen here in the change room with my jeans on underneath!
Not the way I will wear it when I get home :-))

~ Summer wardrobe staple ~
 White tee and white capri leggings
blue suede sandals
wicker bag.


Great for running errands or a beach walk.
With warmer weather in the forecast 
we should all have a basket or bag to carry market staples and finds.
Which is the perfect segue...
speaking of finds


Or speaking of Papillons...
can you see one here on this antique transferware plate?

The crazing and cracks add to the "charm" of this plate.
It has History...

Am I the only one who is attracted to the imperfections?

Do you embrace the "wabi sabi" in old things?...

Suppose that could stretched to include people too :-))

None of us are perfect...
(now there's a profound thought to contemplate)
Call it homework..

Go forth and look for the imperfect in your week and report back.

On that note I shall close this post...

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~


The beauty is in the crazing...
can we extend that idea a wee bit and include wrinkles on faces?


Thank you for stopping by...
I appreciate you taking the time to read my wee blog.

Sunday, March 5, 2023

March 3rd ~ 68 years and thoughts on being OLD, clothes and such.

 


Well I guess this is what 68 looks like...
I still remember how excited I was when I turned 13.

I don't FEEL 68, 
but that sounds strange 
as how WOULD a 68 year old feel?

My idea of 68 (when I was younger) was that at the age of 68 one was OLD.

OLD 
crotchety...
wrinkly and worn out.

Well I can attest to having grey hair, wrinkles and feeling weary on occasion.
But my idea of an OLD woman has changed :-))
Perhaps because I am here and at the age of 68 years OLD young.

I do have aches and pains and cannot do all the things that I used to do in a day.
My flexibility is not what it once was...
 but I am working to regain some of what has been lost.

My eyesight has weakened and I wear glasses to see properly.
I've given up wearing high heels, and only own two pairs of "kitten heels."
I opt to dress for comfort most days...
(apologies to MOM)
I am very much like her in looks and demeanor 
but I don't have that "dress up everyday" gene.


I am wearing a warm and cozy "new-to-me" wool vest with cap sleeves.
I found it at the thrift shop on Pender on my birthday.
What you cannot see are the Hudson knit tweed pants and black Chelsea boots.
You'll have to use your imagination :-))


~ OOTD ~
Snow day at the cottage.
This very old Gap denim shirt gets worn a LOT.
It is soft and comfy, a desert island garment.
Layered over a black lace camisole, black lined leggings.
Akoya Pearls just because...


I am enjoying watching fashion reels from style savvy gals on Instagram.
The Street Style snippets are fun and the tips are great.
Some days I want to rush out and buy a bunch of new clothes!
But seriously, I have to consider my retired lifestyle...
where would I wear a sequin skirt?



I did buy a rhinestone bracelet before Christmas that I must start wearing for fun.
On days perhaps when I meet friends for coffee...


A mystery...
love the description of the book.
Three retired primary school teachers who meet every Thursday for coffee
solve the mystery of a friend...


Yes this is something I need to wear more often...
it has a bit of bling to elevate these cold and blustery days.

My new book is calling my name and I am going to pop the kettle on for a cuppa..
hope you are feeling good and making time for fun.

Thank you for stopping by The Humble Bungalow Blog.

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~

Sunday, February 19, 2023

OOTD ~ Fashion Police "look away" and some thoughts on hair...

 


It's Sunday again...
I am trying to continue with my weekly posts and it seems like Sunday is THE day.

You might be surprised if you saw me today :-))

Honestly...
The Fashion Police would definitely be citing me with an infraction.
most certainly it would be an enormous fine.

After showering I put on my body lotion, washed and moisturized my face...
added some mascara and tinted lip balm.
I am not going out.

OOTD
A pair of indigo sweatpants
black camisole
 dove grey hand knit Miriam wool sweater
 slippers
&
Akoya pearls

This morning I am baking bread, doing laundry and tonight I am making a roast beef.
There will be some reading and knitting...

I am giving myself permission to stay home and cocoon.

In other news...


I found a cute top at the Win Thrift Shop


I used to see a lot of garments made by Joseph Ribkoff.


I think this will come in handy for the summertime.
I can pair it with pants and that blue linen skirt that I purchased last year.


The neckline is perfect for the pearls :-))


The sun was shining a few days ago...
today there are moody clouds blanketing the sky.


Must be craving summer with my shopping habits...
purchased a new straw tote.
a great size for our Pender trips.
It can be loaded up with my laptop, books, and a few other bits.
It will come in handy at The Farmer's Market as well.

Hubby and I went to the Tapas on Oak for dinner.
Our son and the grands gave us a gift card so we wanted to try it out.
The food was good and the tapas portions were perfect for two.
It was busy and the wait staff were super friendly and efficient.


I wore a casual outfit...
tweed Hudson pants
this black crinkle top and my Chelsea boots.

I have no idea who made this top?
it has been in  my wardrobe for ages, it must have been a thrift shop find.
I took it travelling to France and Italy as when washed it dries overnight.
Great for layering !

I post on Instagram daily and several readers mentioned my hair style...
"straight and flat ironed"
the texture of the salt and pepper grey has changed and my hair is much thinner.

This would appear to be an aging issue...
many women complain of thinning hair 
my 69th birthday is a few weeks away
so I guess it is my turn...
but no complaints :-))

Do you colour your grey hair or have you gone au natural?
Was it a gradual process going grey or did you just stop dying it?
Has the texture changed like mine?

Have you changed your hairstyle?
I know many women keep their signature style over decades...
rather like a signature fragrance, many never ever stray.

I am not unhappy with my hair,  but I regularly change things up.
Covid happened and I grew my hair long.
Two years later I had it cropped in a short layered bob.
Now it appears that I am growing out the layers and wearing it straight.
I haven't been to my hairdresser for a few months.

Shall we chat about our hair?
Leave a comment to chime in...

Well I guess I better get on with my day...
lunch will not make itself
plus I want some tea...
then there is bread to bake and laundry to fold!

Hope that you are all well...there seems to be a lot of illness about.

Be Well and Be Kind 

Sunday, January 1, 2023

New Year ~ A time for Hope, Promise and a Fresh Start...

 


~ January 1, 2023 ~

Waking up on a brand new day, a brand new year, feels so full of promise.
There is a sense of optimism, thoughts of possibilities, and wonder.

How DO we start this New Year?

Are there any changes we want to make? 
Are we planning any new adventures?

Will we try something new?
A clean slate awaits...


We stayed up until Midnight on New Years Eve.
Something that we have not done for many years.


We haven't spent a New Years at the cottage before...
 there were quite a few cottages full of people who were celebrating.

We met up with friends who were on their new boat...
its maiden voyage in fact!
Lovely to be welcomed aboard for a tour and a chat.

The Salish Sea is calm 
there is a lot of debris in the water from the recent King Tides.
The logs float off the beaches and become a danger to navigation.

It did not stop me from climbing over and around the beach full of logs...
the edges of the beach were badly eroded from the pounding of the waves.
There were shells, kelp, plastic, trash, and a myriad of things strewn along the shoreline.

I managed to find a few pieces of seaglass but it was tough work.



I do not make new year's resolutions anymore...
I usually just break them :-(

I like to focus on healthier habits and continue to live with intention and gratitude.

I could definitely stand to lose some weight...
so I know what I need to do.

Move more, eat smaller healthy meals...and stop munching on potato chips!


They are a snug size 12


I bought a new pair of jeans and am going to use them as a "tool"
a tool to slim down my midsection.

I will not be "beating myself up" 
but will phase in small changes in over the next few weeks.

You know what they say..."Rome wasn't built in a day!"


~ OOTD ~
Style & co jeans
Hand knit Miriam sweater 
Akoya Pearls
Simple white Tee Lands' End

Starting 2023 with a casual look
wearing slightly snug jeans



How did you spend New Years?
Did you stay up to ring in the New Year?

Are you making any resolutions?

I'd love to have you chime in and leave a comment.

Thank you for stopping by The Humble Bungalow Blog.

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~

Monday, October 3, 2022

Thoughts on living through a pandemic...and coming out a changed person.


Please join me on the porch of The Humble Bungalow.
Not in person, of course, but in the spirit of friendship.

Our porch is a quiet contemplative place to sit outside 
in the sunshine
a place to chat and perhaps sip a beverage
make yourself comfy...


The news over the past few years has been disheartening and grim.

We've suffered a catastrophic worldwide pandemic...
Covid has changed us all and not necessarily for the better.


Many of the early days of Covid were dark and filled with fear...
we couldn't see our friends or family.
We were set adrift from our comfortable and often predictable routines
left alone to endure and weather the storm.

The Nightly News was focused around the serious nature of the disease
the deaths and the spread of the virus.
Things were incredibly bleak.

We were told the scientists were already working on a vaccine.

We waited and waited
often impatiently 
for the promised vaccine.

I had to limit my exposure to the news broadcasts 
to prevent myself from going down a dark rabbit hole...

I embraced the basic simple joys to keep my spirits level...
my moods were not euphoric but the little things in my daily round kept me going.


Getting outside in the garden was a gift...
We were so fortunate that we could dig in the dirt
plant seeds and watch them grow.

I think we grew closer as a couple and relied on each other 
more than ever before in our married life.
Our "BUBBLE" was small...
two humans and two cats.

The roses rewarded us with blooms for our hard work tending to their needs.
We took JOY seeing things bloom and thrive, 
excited to see seeds sprouting.


Cutting a few blooms and bringing them inside was a luxury.

Popping them in a vessel, be it a jam jar or a crystal vase
was a tonic that enriched our days.


Escaping safely to the cottage to cocoon was an absolute godsend.

We were able to self isolate and have a change of scenery.
It helped to temporarily soothe our worried minds...

We've now come through several years living with this virus.
have had our 4 vaccinations and we have changed...

Life as we knew it will never be the same.

I've learned a lot about myself...

Discovered that I am resilient, and can rise to a challenge.
Am able to amuse myself for long periods of time without going stir crazy!
Can make do and mend.
Will laugh at the littlest things...

Found out the small (est) things can and do bring JOY...

sweeping the floor
cooking new recipes
listening to music
washing the dishes
knitting
reading a good book
collecting sea glass on the beach
walking 
the songs of the birds
butterflies
the smell of a scented candle
coffee
fragrant soap

I think expectations I have held onto for years have been drastically altered.
I no longer crave expensive things...
or even "things" if I am being honest...
I desire only the comforts of home, family and friends.

It is a shift in mindset, 
honestly it is the one huge takeaway for me, from these past two years.
 
I also decided to declutter the entire bungalow...
donated most everything that we no longer use.
Gave away a lot to charity.
We do not NEED to KEEP stuff we don't love and use.
The feeling of having less stuff is so uplifting.

I did that to my clothes closet too!
My scarf drawer has been reduced to about a dozen scarves in total...
The cupboards look really organized and some quite bare!

I don't crave designer or name brand things...
a few well made items work and I have not shopped as much as pre Covid.

I did buy two lovely linen aprons which I have happily
worn to cook and clean...
with my pearls :-))

My daily household uniform is simple...
Jeans and a Tee, or top, linen apron and a strand of Akoya pearls.

While I know that pearls might be considered a wee bit "mumsy"
I don't care if they are not "on trend."
I wear what I like and they bring me JOY.

Family and friends are so precious...
we make time to see them whenever possible.
When it wasn't safe we saw people outside from afar...
thankfully now we can see the nearest and dearest close up.
What a huge relief that is!

I drank too much alcohol during Covid...
Possibly I was trying to numb myself from reality.

I've not had a drink for 3 months now 
am sipping a tasty faux beer called Partake these days.
Enjoying a de-alcoholized bubbly from Italy called Bottega.

Surprising
it was not hard to quit drinking, but now I crave chocolate!

I haven't decided if I will drink alcohol again or not?
It is too early to know...
I know that I sleep better without the wine.
Our recycling box is not very full these days :-))

I have a lot more things that I could say about Covid and how it changed me...
 this is a good start or maybe it's enough?

How has Covid changed you?

While I am on the subject...
there is a lot of room for (self) improvement left here too...
for example I could lose at least 15 pounds.
Maybe WW is in my future?


I'll close for now 
hope that you will chime in and share some of your thoughts...


What simple JOYS do you enjoy?


The fresh air walks are one of my favourite ways to banish
any negative thoughts and energy.

Thank you for taking the time to read my blog.

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~