Calm and Soothing...

Serenity ~ peace ~ calm

Soothing thoughts 

 I cultivate on a regular basis.

Self care is not selfish it is vital to our well being.

First thing each morning I savour a cup of coffee.

Then I have a shower.

After drying off using a Belgian linen towel 

I apply an emollient lotion which soothes and softens my skin.

These may seem like simple rituals...

 and they are!

They are essential for my mental well being and health.

(especially during this pandemic when we are all living with stress)

Most days are spent in The Humble Bungalow Garden.

There is a lot of weeding, dead heading of the roses and general tidying up.

Sweeping inside the downstairs of the Humble Bungalow is a daily habit.

I used to despise this job but now I embrace it as an opportunity to meditate.

The repetative motion of the broom as it sweeps away dust is very soothing...

Home keeping is necessary and I have learned to enjoy most of the tasks.

It feels so satisfying looking at what has been accomplished after tidying up.

My reward is a cup of tea and a couple of chapters in the book that I am currently reading...

White flowers are so elegant..

they feel calm and peaceful

Serene.

Sharing these thoughts with you this morning has reinforced 

my daily habits of cultivating what I seek.

Hope that you enjoy your week.

Thank you for stopping by...

The Humble Bungalow Blog.

 ~Be Well and Be Kind ~

Todays tidbits...right here in black and white!

Later I will share a few new things here in The Humble Bungalow...

first things first...

my creative juices have been waning for awhile

writing has taken a back seat for now

my energy is otherwise engaged in reading and knitting

There have been some moody moments, thinking about and remembering mom.

Yesterday I bought a latte and sat on the beach
where my sister and I spread mom's ashes.

It was a beautiful afternoon,
the seas gently rippled
and
glistening in the bright sunshine.

Waters ebb and flow...
moods alter

a white lab comes by for a pat
its owner follows ~ apolgizes for the intrusion
not bothered at all by the dog
I continue to sit and savour the latte
thinking how close I feel to mom

calmed by the lapping of the waves
restored
peace follows
a positive energy has returned.

A pretty pink

 pop of colour 

 lewisia blooms.

I have been indulging in a wee bit of retail therapy...
nothing outrageous
but a few things that caught my eye.

Emma Bridgewater Black Toast pattern is a favourite of mine...

I found these wee picnic pieces at The Bungalow on Estevan Avenue.

Too cute to pass up on and fit perfectly in my small insulated picnic tote.

Lands' End packable down jacket 

it will keep the chill away on my winter walks.

New black napkins

white mini pumpkins 

for the table

We are hosting a dinner party

I'll post on the menu and the table settings in a future post.

Our neighbours' cat napping in our garden in a patch of sunshine.

There are two cats, each look identical, so I can never tell them apart.

I didn't mean to disturb its slumber

the ragdoll cats that live across the street are so friendly.

Time for a stretch on the gravel drive...

Time for me to get back to my dinner party prep...

Thank you for taking the time to stop by and read The Humble Bungalow Blog.

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~

Renewal: refreshed, recharged, re-energized and "retail-ed!"

The past weekend was full to the brim with simple joys and bright moments which have left me feeling energized.
I have come out of a dark mood and into the light...

My morning cafe creme routine starts with counting my blessings,
I sit quietly reflecting on all the good things in life embracing and adopting the attitude of gratitude to set the tone for the day. I have found this to be very powerful and it changes the way that I see and interpret life events.

Mr HB and I walked in Chinatown...through Fan Tan Alley.

Victoria's Fan Tan Alley

My husband took me out for lunch at The Fan Tan Cafe, a popular Chinese food restaurant in our city's historic chinatown. It was busy, the service was great and we sipped our tea and chatted while we waited for our food. The food was not "totally WW friendly" (noodles were involved!) but the seafood chow mien was chock full of veggies which were so lightly cooked that they were still rich in colour, crisp and delicious.

Here's my fortune cookie and the fortune inside...

I did a wee bit of shopping at the Fan Tan Home Decor and Style shop.

A black dress by Angela Mara made in Italy.

Soft, cozy and the fabric is heavy enough that it does not cling but skims the body which is just the way I like a dress to fit.

It feels like a warm hug.

It was 50% off so I pounced on it and I said YES to the dress!

I plan to keep my eye on this shop as they have quite a few styles that I like.

I wore it out to dinner on Saturday evening when we dined with friends.

This lovely bouquet was a thoughtful gift from my nearest and dearest friend.

She bought it from those darling gals who run Thorn and Thistle Flowers.

They carry such pretty flowers and their plants are amazing...

our Christmas Amaryllis is an indication of their high quality plants.

They sell other things too and now offer coffee and treats

and they now located are in my old neighbourhood.

Sunday I cleaned house and went for my walk.

I opened a new bar of fragrant Verbena soap 

 it is currently scenting our main bathroom.

This soap was from my Mom's condo...

she loved the Verbena scent but she never used it as she loved her Pears soap.

While on the topic of fragrance and scents...

It was time to open a new scented candle.

This one was in the box from 

My Stylish French Box.

I am busy trying to finish my latest knitting project so that I can start my new one!

Have you got a project on the go?

Hope that your week ahead is positive

and filled with 

 lightness and cheer.

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~

The Power of Colour....

With so much turmoil in our world one doesn't like to add to the load by being a "cranky" so I gave myself a talking to...

Mother would be the first to point this out
her "voice" a gentle reminder which I have taken to heart...

Thanks Mom.

Attitude of Gratitude.

Jude the Obscure is STILL BLOOMING!

Love the tinges of red on the petals...

they are usually all yellow so this is new and I wonder why?

Is it morphing into its former root stock?

Amazing that there are so many buds and blooms and in December!

Another thing to be grateful for...roses.

Can you see the silver Christmas balls hanging from the pergola?

Mr. HB strung up our Christmas lights and hung the baubles.

In the next image you can see the lights on the back deck strung with the climbing Royal Sunset rose.

Jamie sent me her new book...it is an advanced reading copy.

Her books are such fun to read...she is a lovely person too.

I went on her Ooh La La Paris tour a few years ago.

Jamie has that "joie de vive" and she is an inspiration...

I love her positive energy.

Will be posting on this book after reading the book.

I may decide to post an interview with Jamie on the blog.

I think that would be fun!

The weather has been moody and grey this past week.

Dallas Road looks across Juan de Fuca Strait

where we are able observe lots of interesting cloud patterns.

This view is from The Esplanade where Mom and I walked regularly...

SO

 my resolve for not buying anything new was tested

 when I spied these RED 

Josef Seibel flats at 50% off

BUT

a great way to add some much needed energy and cheer into these gloomy days.

An icy modernist Tapio Wirkkala vase from the second hand shop

smaller than the vintage Wirkkala Tree of Life vase

that I received for Christmas

a gift from Mr. HB at 17

meant for long stemmed red roses...

Mom did not have a vase tall enough to place the dozen long stemmed roses 

that he gave me on Valentines Day

so

 we had to cut them down!!

Can you imagine his shock when he saw them cut in half?

Wise move that he gifted a taller vase which I have kept and cherish and am reminded of that snippet from the past whenever I use it!

 This shorter vase will be perfect for tulips.

Perhaps even some red flowers?

Adding some festive touches to our front porch.

Simple green boughs and red Ilex berries make a cheery display.

Red seems to be the colour of the moment here in The Humble Bungalow.

It has certainly perked me up and been a much needed mood shifter.

Thank you for stopping by...

A dear reader sent me an email asking about the sugar cookies that I baked, 

she wanted the recipe.

Here is my friend Bryce's recipe...

I use butter instead of the margarine 

 I dip the cookies into red or green sugar sprinkles gently flattening them just a wee bit before pacing them on the cookie sheet.

My oven is not as hot so I bake the cookies for about 13-15 minutes

but keep an eye on them as they are not meant to brown.

This recipe doubles well too.

Enjoy!

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~

Raindrops keep falling....thinking of MOM.

It has been a pretty wet, wild and windy week.

I have felt rather out of sorts...

not blue, 

just kind of irritable...

moody.

Despite these feelings

I've managed to be quite productive.

Frequently when the rains set in I tend to "cocoon"

laying low 

reading, knitting and taking tea.

One advantage of these blustery days is that I prefer 

 staying close to home...

I did go to bridge lessons and play bridge and I made a Grand Slam!

I have baked several dozen batches of sugar cookies 

sprinkled with red and green sprinkles.

I wrote out our Christmas cards while sipping tea by the fire.

Picked up and worked on my knitting project, 

the large lap blanket that is quite large and awkward to manoeuvre.

Of course there has been some reading...

cooking

laundry and ironing.

There is always a lot to do here in The Humble Bungalow.

The newest book is by Mary Lovell 

who also wrote The Mitford Girls 

a book that I devoured and savoured reading...

so I will be expecting the same quality and interesting subject matter.

I broke one of my dental crowns

it fell apart as I was nibbling coleslaw.

There is a temporary on my tooth right now as I wait for a replacement crown.

The crown was 2 years old and apparently they come with a 5 year warranty

so I am relieved that I do not have to pay for another one.

Must say that this was a welcome surprise...

Evenings we have been sitting by the fire in The Humble Bungalow

keeping warm and cozy

which 

makes me appreciate our tiny home so much more.

The dark wood in our bungalow glows with the lamplight

it looks best 

during the Fall and Winter months.

Drafts seem to disappear when the fire is roaring

lovely to hear the sounds of the crackle and pop 

as the wood burns.

Comfort foods and the cold weather seem to go hand in hand.

Soups, Stews, Roasted Vegetables, Mashed Potatoes

all have been cooked and eaten this past week.

Craving warm dishes, 

I have been eating oatmeal for breakfast most mornings.

French inspired...

yogurt with a tablespoon of jam stirred into it, 

a quick and easy bedtime snack.

The sun popped out one day

my spirits lifted

it was so good to see some colour.

Green moss encrusted pillar

close up of the moss 

with the Garry Oak Tree in the background

Lichen and moss on the trees near the Swan Lake Nature Sanctuary.

Our small tree on the front porch

dressed up with white lights

a few festive touches are slowly being added...

I wonder if I am experiencing some of the melancholy that frequently surfaces at holiday time when one is missing a recently departed family member.

It has only been 8 months since mom passed away

I do not weep as often but she is in my thoughts every day

many of her things are here

I am wearing her cashmere sweater

her pearl necklace and using some of her kitchen gadgets.

This Christmas may be more painful than I am expecting...

I know in my heart that she would not want me to be sad 

but how can one not think about the love and the memories

after spending 62 years together?

I try to be positive and optimistic.

No point being gloomy, 

but I do have days

where the sadness is more acute than others...

In the meantime I do not ignore the feelings 

they will ease with time.

I always feel rejuvenated when I get outside on my walks.

The shin splints are less painful so they must be healing.

 I should be able to resume my usual route soon, though I plan to walk slower as I want to avoid exacerbating those pesky shins.

What is new with you?

Are you reading something fabulous?

Have you started to decorate for the Festive Season?

Dewdrops 

lovely as they hang tentatively from the branches.

Thank you for stopping by The Humble Bungalow Blog.

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~

Friday thoughts...

In response to a recent comment
I wrote this from the heart
and thought it might be a focus for Friday
as we approach the festive season...
which for many,
can be fraught with emotion.

Gate of Harmonious Interest in Victoria's Chinatown

"it is sad to think that people want to inflict their gloom on others who embrace the good things in life and seek out beauty and prefer to be joyful. We all experience dark days and there are many who suffer from depression and chronic pain which I can understand as I have been there and have come out of the bouts with an invigorated and focused approach to embrace the little things in life that make me happy. My wish is that we work at finding solutions and tools that make our way through life a richer and more rewarding journey."

Juan de Fuca Strait

as viewed from King George Terrace

"after the storm"

The skies reminded me of a Tony Onley watercolour.

I love looking at the holiday lights as they transport me back to my childhood.

Mother and Father would let us stay up late, 

bundle us up in our pajamas and robes 

drive us around town looking at many of the homes with the twinkling lights.

Some had lawn ornaments and several had mechanized reindeer with Santa guiding the sleigh.

Our family fell into what we might consider as the middle class.

We had a home in a nice neighbourhood but we did not have a lot of money.

Gifts at Christmas were often second hand...

Mother was an excellent seamstress and she made our velvet Xmas dresses.

She sewed one for herself and with the leftover fabric she made my sister and I matching dresses.

Our pictures every year show 3 of us in matching coloured velvet frocks!

Father was very handy and he could fix things.

I remember getting a pink radio!

It was a vintage (even by1960's standard) radio that he refurbished and painted pink just for me...

I'd say that was a labour of love.

One year I got a bike...

a Raleigh, that he completely rebuilt with new tires and a fresh coat of paint.

We also got things that we "needed" like socks and underwear.

Books and a couple of small toys.

My Father was in the Fraternal Order of the Elks and they had a Christmas Party for the families every Christmas and that is where we got a super duper gift!

I remember getting a Barbie, a Midge and Skipper dolls.

The gifts were a real treat.

My Father grew up during the Depression and I think it had a huge impact on how he viewed money.

He scrimped and saved to put money away in the bank.

His family struggled to put food on the table and I heard a story once that they sold their claw foot tub in order to pay for something!

Can you imagine?

My thoughts are rather discombobulated 

but what I am trying to say is that life is a tapestry of events 

sewn together rather haphazardly

what we choose to do with these events 

has a huge impact on who we are

how we are seen by others

and what we bring to the table.

Life has struggles and challenges

and

after all is said and done...

We all have choices...

we can wallow

feel sorry for ourselves

OR

take action

work hard to change things

adopt the attitude of gratitude

 I choose gratitude and when I do,

 happiness follows...

If you know of someone who could use a little cheer today

please take it upon yourself to lend a hand.

Carol Woodard the slow cooker cookbook is yours!

please email me your address at bungalowhostess@gmail.com

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~