A foray into fashion-ology from the Humble Hostess

Wearing too much BLING can be distracting...
it's nice to own and fun to wear but it does need to be worn in good taste
and to my mind that means using restraint.

Can you spell sumptuous?

Diamond rings in

pink, white and yellow gold

Oh Santa Baby...

iconic...

these rings are from Cartier

bracelets are available that match the rings.

Party season...calls for dressing up a bit more...at least it does for me.
I used to have the tendency to wear all my sparkly bling at once...
(I absorbed this through my Mother who wears many rings on her fingers)

I approach festive dressing with some trepidation....

Do I have enough after 5 clothes to carry me through without going out and doing some last minute frenzy of panic shopping?
And why do I feel pressure about getting dressed, I do it everyday with relative ease...

While I realize that I am not required to wear a new outfit for every event...there is a sense that I do not want to be repetitive and boring or worse, dressed badly.
So I have considered my options, The French minimalist approach is what I adhere to.

As I see it this translates to owning at least one LBD that you love, is flattering, and fits well and it will outlast any fashion fad. (I have several)

A black top and black bottom be it a skirt or dress pants are superior workhorses...
do not underestimate their value. Consider them as a blank slate on which you choose where to add emphasis...highlight and accentuate the positive. Consider your figure and add accents where you want people to focus. (camoflague the areas that you wish to hide)

Conversely a crisp white shirt with "collar points up" a black trouser or skirt looks striking and can be dressed up with ropes of pearls clustered at the neck...maybe some small studs and you're done.

I like to mix things up and wear my basics with a different attitude...
I add lipstick that is darker/richer for evening and focus on my eyes which I line with kohl and dust with a bit of shadow.

A simple and elegant pashmina shawl...
ethnic or dazzling drop earrings with hair pulled away from the ears
or worn in an updo so they really take center stage.
Bling works well here!
If the earrings are large I skip the necklace and add one bracelet.
I feel more comfortable when the pieces are worn farther apart so they don't compete with each other.
I do not want to look like a Christmas tree.

One striking statement piece of jewelry packs a punch when worn solo...or if you are a woman of some serious restraint do not wear any gems, maybe just a killer pair of shoes in a colour that compliments your painted toes.

Go easy with the scent...so many people are allergic these days...I apply it with a very light touch.
People don't want to smell you before they see you.

"Put your best face forward" was what Mother would advise.

I recently went to a spa and treated myself to a microdermabrasion facial

which left my skin feeling dewy and soft...

Thanks Mom!

Wear everything with a smile...and don't be afraid to laugh and enjoy yourself.

Isn't it more about attitude and zest than it is about the clothes...

aren't they just icing on the cake?

I adore pearls with a smile...
let's face it, I've yet to meet a pearl that I didn't like.

I am not a fashionologist, I defer to the experts...

I get inspiration from a variety of sources but ultimately what I choose must look decent, feel comfortable and appropriate for the event.

What are you going to be wearing this season?
I look forward to your comments/critiques.

Candle light...

Candlelight adds warmth and ambiance...
and I love beeswax candles but I have found a worry free and safe alternative for some situations.

Tiffany crystal votive

I find that lighting candles in the dining room makes the food taste better and the simple act of eating a meal is elevated to something a bit more special. There is a possibility of romance in the soft glow.

Entertaining and candlelight seem to go hand in hand.
The buffet table comes alive when the candleabras are aglow.

I found some battery operated votives this year and I can leave them on even when I am not in the room.
They work well in my precious antique finger bowls and there is no danger of them melting down and overheating the delicate crystal. I arranged these atop of the arts and crafts cabinet in the dining room with my crystal art deco ballerina.

Daytime image

I've considered draping her with a sparkly rhinestone necklace...

 details of the finger bowls are more visable when they are lit from within

I plan to light large candles in my bathroom during the holidays.

I made a stuffed free range roast chicken dinner with mashed potatoes, green beans and carrots.

It was delicious and the best part is that I have leftovers for a few meals.

No worry dinners for a couple of days while I am focusing on getting Christmas ready.

 I have boiled the carcass and made soup stock

my daughter has a terrible cold

and I plan to make her some chicken soup which is my prescription for healing

all that ails.

The torrential rain has stopped which is fortunate 

as there has been some flooding in our area

 some neighbours have had to pump out their basements.

There's a patch of blue sky and a ray of sun shining down

the birds are chirping and singing

you can almost feel their happiness.

hope that you have a great week!

Pepper patterns...

I found a fun top...
or rather it found me...
Pepper's... feline influence is showing up again.

pockets

it's a loose tunic length top

which I will pair with my black leggings

and add some ballet flats

the sequinned ones from last season

and the vintage eelskin clutch

I could wear some pearls...

but maybe this needs something a bit more artsy

 Debra Kay 

vintage cubes of crystal

haphazardly woven 

with

sterling accents

I put it up to Pepper

and I think this is the one :)

For my money Robin Reed is TOP of the POPS!

In The Humble Bungalow Family and those who are in our circle of friends...
share a Christmas custom which harkens back to the old country....
Jolly Olde England.

We wear paper hats during Christmas dinner...they are garish shades of Eggy Yellow, Fire Engine Red, Royal Purple, and Hot Pink....which invariably clash with one's outfit!

There is a bit of a mad scramble to pull these crackers...all the food is on the table, we are ready and gathered, we turn to the person seated beside us, (it works best if we all turn to the same side or chaos ensues!)  take turns pulling the crackers. They POP and we swiftly unwrap and empty out the contents...hats are put on and we set the rest aside while we serve and pass turkey and vegs...we toast with some wine and bubbly and when dinner has been finished and those wanting seconds are sated, the table is cleared and we get down to the business of reading the jokes and riddles and showing off the prizes inside...
(laughter and groans follow...the jokes are usually bad)

Trading does occur...and sometimes the ante is high if there is a coveted item.
I have kept my mini screwdriver set from several years back, it has been a valuable tool pack for mini fixes when Mr. HB is not here...and the mini cards found their way into my handbag and were used on a long ferry ride.

If one is creative, has time and wants to shop for personal and individualized prizes

the makings for these are available at Michael's stores and most certainly there are some online sources.

I have yet to make my own Christmas Crackers

I feel that these folks have been making them for so long that they have mastered the art...

clever merchants!

that's what I tell myself...

I do not want to entertain guilty or lazy thoughts!

Hostess Holiday Hint:

I double recipes and freeze them for times when life gets busy...

like now!

 I take the frozen dinner out of the freezer the night before and refrigerate

then all I need to do is heat it through and make a salad, set the table and I'm done.

Christmas...and memories...

Christmas,
and memories...
of family celebrating together

no ordinary walking stick

this was

handmade by my father

he used it in his later years

mother gave it to me

when he died

he carved and varnished this piece of wood....

a former piece of driftwood that he found on the beach

I keep this stick by the front door in the entry hall beside the Westminster clock

it rarely gets moved...I only spied it this morning when looking for Pepper.

Dad always put an orange in the toe of our Christmas stockings

during the Great Depression oranges were like gold...

Dad, 

I wish 

you were here...

I see you in the light

and I can almost feel you

in this stick that you carved

If only you could be here in

 our Humble Bungalow again 

especially at Christmas

when we gather to celebrate

and honour our simple family

and partake of turkey and trimmings

pull crackers, wear hats and hold hands

secure in the knowlege that love lives here

but as this tear drops I know that it cannot be

another holiday will pass without you

and I will miss you.

Leslie