Going grey and a new coif...

Planning for retirement means that a few changes are wise and prudent...
at least for a Humble Hostess as money does not grow on trees.

Thoughts on what is important, priorities and the lifestyle changes I need to make
have been occupying my mind.

One of which is my hair...
I have been going to the hairdresser every 5 -6 weeks for all over colour and a cut.
The cost of which is rather dear.
I adore my hairdresser and hope that as long as she continues to work that we will enjoy our visits but they will be less often starting now.
In consultation with my hairdresser I am not going to have all over colour anymore.
Instead there will be a few highlights added at the root line every couple of months to allow for the gradual growing in and transition of the greys!

She agreed with me that we chop a bunch off and have a new look while we embark on this new path.
I'm excited about the change!
It really pays to have someone onboard who knows your hair texture and knows what will suit your face shape.
I haven't a clue!

you can see how much shorter it is...

the weight of the length gone and now the curls spring loose

the tinsel is there at the root line

and as time goes by there will be more tress bling!

There will be a few more lifestyle changes in the works

I'll keep you posted as they surface on  the radar!

Hope that you have a wonderful weekend...

~ French Style ~ a book and thoughts after reading...

Are you a fan of all things French?
There is something about France and Paris that speaks to me...
it's a mystery as to why I am drawn to it like a moth to a flame.

Perhaps it is all the books that I have read over the years that paint a lovely picture of French country life.
It could be the movies... the romantic images of Audrey Hepburn in Sabrina
the chauffeur's daughter who runs off to Paris and is transformed by cooking school and a new hairstyle.
Or perhaps it's French Vogue, or the iconic and enduring styles created by Coco Chanel.

In any case I am as far from a French femme as possible and have no illusions of being one.
But having said that it does not stop me from exploring all things French and reading books on French life and style.

One of my favourite books is a classic by Veronique Vienne.

she has a quality about her

feminine

 very comfortable in her own skin

"bien dans sa peau"

her skin glows and her hairstyle is casual 

she looks like she has not fussed too much

she is not wearing too much make up

my impression is that she looks natural and healthy

and quintessentially chic.

What about Canadian Chic?

Is there such a thing and if there is what would it look like?

Our country is such a melting pot of ethnic groups that it would be difficult to define!

Style is personal and the clothes you wear are a reflection of who you are.

They should be honest, comfortable, a little bit creative, and above all be fun.

So if like myself you dress for comfort...

it might be flats instead of high heels

for honesty

not wearing designer duds head to toe 

 (a no no in my books even for the rich)

and especially if you are on a beer budget

creative 

can be found in accessories and they do not need to cost the earth

they can be inherited, thrift shop finds or vintage

fun

might be wearing a bright pair of ballet flats with your jeans and a white shirt

"Dressing your age" is a phrase that bothers me

dressing appropriately for your figure and lifestyle might be more to my liking.

I cannot imagine "giving up" on fashionable clothes just because one reaches a certain age.

We see many older women here in baggy polyester 2 piece outfits and they are not very exciting.

I am referring to the pastel shades of pants and wildly flowered patterned tops that can be found in many shops.

Please don't!

I'll give you an example of a well dressed woman 

(who must have been 80 if she were a day) 

at the Market and she looked lovely.

Navy dress pants, a short tan car coat, a bright silk square scarf with red accents on a navy background

navy kitten heels, an understated leather bag and small gold hoops in her ears and a smile!

I think her clothes were many years old but the cuts were good as were the fabrics and she looked fabulous.

whatever you choose to wear it should say something about who you are...

you clothes should be clean

and appropriate for whatever it is that you are doing

whether you are at work or at play

meeting the gals for coffee or lunch

or out on a date night with your sweetheart

Plan ahead so that you are relaxed and comfortable.

Buy sizes that fit your body

not the body that you want when you lose that extra 20 pounds.

Have a few key pieces for a variety of occasions

my go to bare basics are :

well fitting black pants

white shirt

silky tank style top for layering

a dress that fits and flatters that is simple and can be dressed up or down

cashmere cardigan

tweedy style (Chanel) jacket

scarves 

a few fabulous brooches and several strands of pearls

a pair of kitten heel shoes

some flats

an evening bag

and a pashmina wrap

a great coat

Make sure that buttons are not dangling and threads are not hanging loosely.

Iron out creases and pay attention to details

are your shoes polished or worn down at the heels?

Look in the mirror before you leave the house so you are confident.

Don't do what I did that day I ran out to the bakery just before it closed only to see my reflection in the glass that showed a messy wind swept hair do and a pale face with no lipstick on!

( invariably you meet someone you'll know and the moment to make an impression is upon you!)

If you can get your hands on this book it is well worth a read.

Classics are never out of style

nor are manners.

Have fun getting dressed and exploring some new shops in your city.

Buying accessories can give a new lease on life to a wardrobe and you can dress creatively while you are saving for some new clothes or dieting and working out to shed those extra unwanted pounds.

Above all Have Fun!

Hostess

Frugality ~ How do you keep your wardrobe looking new and fresh?

I've been very frugal lately...
you may have noticed that I have not been posting lots of "look at what I bought" shots!
It's all the high tech laundry work horses and the renovations that have kept me out of the shops.

There may be a new stove in our future too as ours is misbehaving...
and that is another large purchase.
Better get this all done before my income is reduced when I retire!
We have a new roof scheduled for this spring and the sun deck needs to be rebuilt.
Heritage homes must be maintained or they fall into disrepair so quickly...I suppose that is true of any home.

I bought this Betty Barclay sweater coat on sale

it was $140 off the original price!

In grey and it elongates my stature and skims my wobbly bits in my mid section

what's not to love?

To make my clothing seem newer and fresher I have been changing the way that I wear my pearls...

I've added the JCrew necklace that I got for Christmas to add a modern touch.

Ancient Liz Claiborne shirt

still crisp and serviceable

What about you?

How do you mix up your wardrobe when you crave something new and fresh 

but don't want to spend the money?

Do you sneak off to the thrift or consignment shops with your grocery money?

Do you buy anyways and put it on a credit card?

Have you stashed some money aside  for a rainy day splurge?

How does it make you feel when you know that you shouldn't spend and that you should save?

Are you a compulsive shopper, a recreational shopper or a reluctant shopper?

I've found staying out of the shops has been easier than I thought it would be...

browsing online has been an outlet which satisfies my urge to shop

and with only a minor slip up at the Gap Online Sale I am having a lot of success!

The fact that I want to lose a few more pounds before I buy anything else is a great motivator.

Tell me dear reader how do you do it?

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~ Victoria Sponge ~ The Humble Bungalow Tea Cake..

Don't you love having a few tried and true recipes that you can make when the occasion arises?
Teas are a lovely way to entertain when the weather gets warm and sunny and a great excuse to get some of your friends together for an afternoon in the garden.

This Victoria Sponge is a classic tea confection.
All you need to add is a fresh fruit platter and some good quality tea
and you've got the makings of a pleasant, yet easy gathering.
Use your prettiest china and silver tea service...
if you do not own any of these try haunting the local charity shops and thrift stores as they are plentiful where I live and can be bought for very little coin.

Mother's Day might be just the occasion to serve this cake, our Mother's do love a tea party!

simple ingredients

this recipe goes together quite quickly

I cook mine for 25 minutes and use the confection setting in my oven

 a spring form pan make this easy work

when cool cut in half

I use a serrated bread knife

spread the bottom layer with jam

any flavour that you desire

I used raspberry

sieve some confectioner's sugar on top and the cake is ready to serve

Tested and approved by Mr. HB and The Hostess!

Now all you need to do is choose a date and make up a list of friends to invite and you've got a lovely event to look forward to...

Hope that your week is off to a great start!

Hostess

Pottering with paint...

It was a glorious day yesterday!
Looking out the windows from The Humble Bungalow
I felt energized.

The sun was out and the shadows danced across the garden throughout the day.
Warmer than it has been and just that hint that Spring might not be too far off.
Days like this beckon me to go out and potter about in the garden...
there are so many bulbs up that they look as if they will bloom early this year.

Keeping cozy and cocooning indoors I felt antsy...
it's a difficult task for me not being able to go out and about as I am so accustomed.

I started a knitting project and read a few chapters in my book, drank several cups of tea and yet I felt the need to do something more.

I wandered downstairs and found myself in my hobby room browsing through my favourite decor magazines.
It was lovely sitting with the cats playing at my feet...

My easel beckoned
it's been awhile since I have picked up a brush and one cannot force artistic expression.
It needs to flow from deep within, and when the time is right things seem to come together.

Roses!

Thank you all for your lovely and encouraging comments.

I feel snug and spoiled by your get well wishes.

Wishing you a weekend full of delight.

Treat yourself and indulge in something nice...

Be well

Hostess

XO