Friday, November 30, 2012

Musings and the winds of change are blowing through The Humble Bungalow

Thank you all for your warm wishes and wonderful comments on my blog yesterday.
You made my blog anniversary something special.
I am very grateful.



Random thoughts are zigging and zagging while I sit calmly sipping my tea.
"Be still my mind" I mutter aloud,
 and yet there's no silencing the voice within...

Retirement has been very much on my brain of late.
I think that there is a change blowing in the wind.
Beckoning...

I've been working for the same school district for almost 25 years!
Mother's health is gradually deteriorating, her mind is getting muddled and she is confused about her banking, investments, and worries more often about simple daily routines.

Plus I have been getting almost every cold and flu bug going around in our vast school.
I am home sick today with the stomach flu.

So I'm pondering a change...thinking out loud today here on my blog.
I could work part time doing something completely different that feeds my creative soul...

What might be available for an older woman like myself?
Or do I simply retire and take care of my family, home and garden at a slow pace?
I love to potter about in the kitchen and would love to join a fitness class and get back into Yoga.

There is a sense of reinvention brewing...
I can feel the vibration of change in the air.

I'd need to be much more frugal
 but in the end would it not all balance out?

Luxury is not buying the latest Hermes scarf or the most popular designer hand bag.
Luxury is a gift, a gift of time that money cannot buy.


 Merriam Webster defines luxury as:

a condition of abundance or great ease and comfort : sumptuous environment

something adding to pleasure or comfort but not absolutely necessary

an indulgence in something that provides pleasure, satisfaction, or ease


Devoting time to an elderly parent, tending to a wonderful husband, reading more books, painting and perhaps taking a writing course or volunteering with The Art Gallery or in a soup kitchen.

My wardrobe is small and consists of mostly neutral shades.
I think it would transfer very well into a casual lifestyle....
Lunching, volunteering, taking Mother out and fitness/Yoga classes I'd certainly have plenty of options in my closet.

OOTD
It was mid week when I snapped this shot and my outfit is very casual.
My days are very busy and active at work so I don't opt for dry clean only garments
plus anything that rides up or shows off too much flesh is not going to make the cut.



Gilmour mushroom toned tunic top
black ponte knit leggings
black boots
(very affordable and pedestrian ~ Hush Puppies)
Burberry wool scarf
Sherman pin
(Gift from MIL eons ago)

The old washer and dryer are going to be vacating any day now as the tiler will be back on the job
The new LG's will arrive after the tile has been completed.


This brooch always gets comments.


Chester likes to get in on the action!

Change is inevitable
life does not stand still.



“Stepping onto a brand-new path is difficult, but not more difficult than remaining in a situation, which is not nurturing to the whole woman.”
― Maya Angelou


My thoughts today...
embracing honest feelings and listening to my heart.

Be Well.
Hostess
XO

Thursday, November 29, 2012

The Humble Bungalow celebrates a milestone...

The Hostess of the Humble Bungalow Blog is celebrating a birthday!


I really don't know where the 3 years have gone...
November 29th began an adventure.


It's been quite a journey since I ventured down this road
lots has happened and I have published a rather staggering amount of writing...
as of today 734 posts and counting...






You met "the glove"
my partner in domestic crime against grime.
We are constantly armed and engaged in a battle. 


You learned that my favourite flowers are roses
that I grow David Austin Roses in the garden
love to arrange bouquets
cooking, reading 
being a wife, friend, mother and grammy are the very core of my being and they bring me immense JOY!


I have a passion for pearls that borders on an addiction.

I've shared so much of my personal life
chattered on about everything and then nothing
some of you have been with me all the way 
and I love receiving all your emails and comments.


My OOTD for this event is something so unremarkable you'd never look twice



I'll put on a bit of bling...
did I mention how much I love and appreciate MR. HB?
He and I have been together forever
and married for 38 years
we honor each other and indulge in date nights


I may pour a glass of something fizzy


It's been a gamble...
let the chips fall where they may


I took a leap 3 years ago and had no idea that I would make such warm connections
that I would actually meet people
through blogging

it's been quite a ride
and I am so grateful that I dipped my toes into this vast pool.


Thank you for coming along on this journey with me
I've enjoyed meeting you in the comment section.

I've discovered many fabulous blogs in cyber space 
 I devote time every day to keeping up with all that is going on in your space
Blogging is great fun!


I think I've still got lots of work to do 
here in The Humble Bungalow and I hope you'll tag along.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Hostess
XO

Monday, November 26, 2012

Pillow talk ~ Hostess Tips for Stress Free Holiday Shopping

Do you remember the film Pillow Talk?
The vintage rom com starring Doris Day and Rock Hudson.

Mother and I spent many happy hours watching films with Doris Day and Rock Hudson when I lived at home.
Father wasn't a big fan of this genre, he preferred James Bond or espionage films.

Mother and I went for a drive this past weekend and did some shopping at Mattick's Farm.
Homebody has sumptuous imported linens and Danish porcelain pieces. It's my new favourite spot to shop for gifts and home decor items.

I managed to find a pillow for our new love seats.
My back aches if I do not support it with a cushion,
it's because I am short and my feet cannot touch the ground without the extra padding!


Belgian Linen 
in an off white shade
the cover is removable for laundering

Chester is giving it the sniff test.


checking the construction


I think he approves.

Over a cup of freshly brewed tea I made out my annual Christmas Do List.

Things to make and bake and take.
Scottish Shortbread
Rum Balls
Bark

List of hostess gifts and ideas...
candles
soaps
linen tea towels and napkins
jams and jellies
fancy vinegars
olive oils
teas

List of people that we buy gifts for, mostly family and friends
 ideas jotted down beside their names.

Things I need to do...
buy, write and mail the Christmas cards
order the turkey
buy the Christmas crackers
get the tree
buy a wreath for the front door
buy some poinsettias
plan the menu for Xmas dinner

Decide on the table cloth and napkins for the turkey feast.
If a new colour is in order buy the cloth and napkins ahead so there is no last minute panic shopping.

 I try to shop ahead close to home 
in smaller shops nearby 
to avoid stress of parking lots and crowded stores.
Walking to the shops is a bonus and I'll frequently indulge in a seasonal treat ~
an egg nog latte from Starbucks.

When I bake, write cards, or do the wrapping I put on my favourite Christmas CD's.
I'll light an aromatic candle and sip a cup of tea or perhaps a wee sherry.
It's so much more pleasant and helps me get into the spirit of the festive season.

I'll keep my shopping list in my purse and make notes as I shop
that way I can keep track of who I have bought for and therefore do not over buy.
I could use my IPhone too but old habits die hard!

Make and plan ahead some meals for nights when energy is waning.
Aim to get to bed earlier to avoid falling ill.
Hydrate with plenty of water
and 
breath deeply and mindfully.
Try to give yourself ample time to accomplish your tasks
rushing just makes one frantic and nerves can get frazzled so quickly.
Be kind to others and don't let the rudeness of others get you down.

Try to schedule in some pampering at the Spa 
or set some time aside 
a few hours at home for a restorative facial 
and a relaxing soak in the tub.

I savour and enjoy getting ready for the holidays
making it easy and enjoyable is how I manage to make the most of the pre-season busy~ness.

Oh!
 I almost forgot
Remember to smile!

Best wishes
Hostess
XO

Saturday, November 24, 2012

Love ~ Seats...

Our tatty leather love seats were well beyond their best before date,
the leather had split and cracked and they were looking shabby ~
unfortunately not in an English country cottage way or we would have kept them.
In hindsight I think we paid way too much for them when we purchased them a dozen years or so ago
and their quality was lacking.

Happily they were snapped up by a family we know with young children,
we are overjoyed to see them go to a good home rather than the landfill.
(one thing I can't stand is waste and I try very hard to recycle)

I wanted to have some lighter slip covered pieces like Janet at The Gardener's Cottage has in her living room.
I'd love to have her decorate my room like she did for one of her friends a while back, and if she lived closer I'd invite her over for tea and ask her advice!
Go over and take a look at Janet's living room and see what I mean.

We have dark wood wainscoting and our room is teeny tiny so it's a challenge and my thoughts are to keep things simple and on a small scale.
I wanted to have something plush and comfy and something that was within our budget.
So we took a look at what IKEA had to offer and found two affordable love seats with washable covers.
They have been shipped over from the store in Richmond and have been installed...
I need to find some extra cushions and perhaps add a few choice items...



I've got a scented candle for ambience
so far...


the family room opens right off the Humble Bungalow kitchen


the wooly cushion is one I hooked when I took a course with my girlfriends
we are known in our circle as "the hookers"
(I think I'll put this one downstairs in my hobby room when I find some new ones)

The love seats are Ektorp
and the covers are in the natural linen shade.

We've ordered a new LG steam washer and dryer set
which will be delivered after the in floor heat and tiles have been finished. 
They are large and sturdy so the slip covers will be able to be laundered at home.
I have been paying to have our duvet and cover laundered over the years so we'll save time and money.
Which is great because the new LG set is more expensive than I thought it would be!
Our old washer and dryer are over 20 years old
and we will be giving those away as they still work.

I'm pleased with the love seats and hope to enjoy many years of comfort sitting on them.
We do not change up our furniture or appliances very often 
when we buy it's with an eye for longevity.
~ ~ ~
 Slim Paley's home in Santa Barbara showed us her home dressed up for American Thanksgiving!
It's absolutely gorgeous!
Pop around and see for yourself.

What home keeping projects are you up to?
Are you adding your personal touch for the autumnal season?

Take care and have a great weekend.

~ ~ ~
Hostess
XO

Thursday, November 22, 2012

Giving Thanks

Happy Thanksgiving!


Our neighbours to the south in the USA will be celebrating and giving thanks today.
It's a reminder for us to count our blessings.

Being thankful is something that I try to do each and every day.
Gratitude is a powerful tool...
it's especially important as it brings perspective and humility.

We have much to be thankful for and one does not need to go far to see that.

It might be the homeless person on the street whose hands are out
the young child who comes to school hungry
or the confused elderly woman in the grocery store who is having trouble figuring out what to put back as she does not have enough money to pay for all the groceries.




Take a moment 
and pause...



I'm remembering my father today

as families gather to share a meal
there are many loved ones who will be missed...

reflect and give thanks
not just today
but everyday
for the rest of your life 
for as long as you live

it's very humbling

 (I'll get down from my soap box now and stop pontificating!)

Happy Thanksgiving.
Hostess
XO