Showing posts with label remembering. Show all posts
Showing posts with label remembering. Show all posts

Thursday, March 5, 2020

Birthday highlights...


Life is speeding by...
now that I have clocked 65 years
looking back
it feels like a bit of a blur.


Japanese Tapa Bar lunch out with my husband and our son
who gave me this beautiful bouquet of flowers.


Flowers are filling many vases here in The Humble Bungalow.


Chester reminds me that we need to stop and smell the flowers!


Love a green and white bouquet.




Birthday lunch out with my girlfriends.

We have a wonderful restaurant nearby called Nourish that features healthy food.
The focus of the menu is mostly vegetables.

This grain bowl had lentils, roasted veggies, kale, radish and carrots
served atop a bed of butternut squash miso.

It was incredibly delicious!


A rather silly impish smile 
as I hold the vast bouquet of flowers that my darling husband bought for me.


We both enjoyed a quiet dinner out at a local hotel.

The place that mom, my sister and I used to go to on Tuesday evenings.
I wore mom's pearl ring and had a glass of mom's favourite white wine.
Remembering her on the anniversary of the day she passed away.

It is with mixed emotions that I celebrate my birthday 
while I remember it is also mom's day of demise.

Thankfully I have a supportive family and friends who cheered me up.
I am so grateful to have had mom in my life for so many years.
I have many special memories and a few of her things 
that continue to remind me of her everyday.


A surprise package arrived in the mail.
From a dear reader of my blog 
Rosemarie

She knows me well and sent me these cute socks.
I am going to wear these a lot.
They are fun and will add some oomph to my basic wardrobe.

Thank you Rosemarie!
XO


The sun is shining and there are signs of Spring 
flowers are coming to life and popping up in the garden.
I feel more energy and enthusiasm when the sun shines.
Do you?

"I enjoy the spring more than the autumn now. 
One does, I think, as one gets older."

~ Virginia Woolf ~


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~ Be Well and Be Kind ~

Monday, March 2, 2020

Something new, a milestone birthday...and cheerful pops of colour.


Good news!
 We have daffodils blooming in The Humble Bungalow Garden.
These cheerful yellow flowers elevate our flagging spirits 
as we crave colour on these dreary rainy days.

It may come as a surprise to you but until recently I did not own 
a totally waterproof coat...
I relied on water resistant coats and jackets and always carried an umbrella.

Perhaps a little bit strange
 as we live on the WET coast!

Years ago, 
when the children were young,
I wore a waterproof Gortex coat 
it was bright red and I loved the bright colour on the rainy days.


I discovered a wonderful wee shop on Government Street
and
found a 100% waterproof coat perfect for our rainy days.


A
Simple
Waterproof
 Breathable 
Coat


I plan to wear some of my bright coloured scarves with this coat.


This wee orchid was a gift from dear friends when mom passed away...

Tomorrow March 3rd will be the anniversary of my mom's demise.
(it will also be my 65th birthday)

For these past few years I find my emotions are mixed on March 3rd...

I don't feel like I am 65, although I know that I am no longer a "Spring Chicken"
I am Grateful to be alive.






I am 3/4 the way through this book and am really enjoying it.
Have you read it?

Did you read her previous book The Post Mistress?


Yellow Hellebore


Sunshine filtering through the door in our front hall...
love the warmth and sunlight so much.
Simple Joys.

Hope that your week is off to a great start and that you are finding pops of cheerful colour in your daily round.

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~

Thursday, February 7, 2019

Snow and soups...

It's COLD!
Not as cold as our neighbours back east or southeast of us...

The temperatures are quickly dipping and the forecast is calling for more snow...
tomorrow and throughout next week!


            When its really cold I like to serve a hearty meal of homemade soup.


I discovered this book at the library while perusing the soup cookbooks...
the authors suggest that drinking bone broth has many health benefits.
I have tried bone broth at restaurants and love the flavour.
So I figured I might try making it at home.

Many of the recipes in this book suggest using a crock pot.
You cook the bones with a mirepoix of veggies, and several quarts of water
 for 12-24 hours on the low setting of the crock pot.
( I used a large slow cooker)
You can use beef, pork, turkey or chicken bones.
(No salt is added during the cooking process)

The bones are removed and cooled
( I picked the meat off the bones and set them aside for my soup)

strain the rest of the ingredients
cool on the countertop
before
putting it into the fridge
the broth can be used in soups or heated up as a drink

it can also be frozen 
in quart mason sealer jars
(fill only 3/4 full)


Ready for the freezer.


Hearty beef and vegetable soup
simmering on the stove.
Smells delicious!

I used the meat from the soup bones, the mirepoix and added a bit of pepper.

When it snows here...
there is very little in the way of snow removal equipment
so if we get a big dump of snow 
getting around town is quite the challenge.

Snow is really beautiful to look at...
so pure
 it muffles any noise 
a white blanket that covers us

kids love it

So much fun
for
making snowmen
snow angels
sledding

I remember 
when I was a child 
 a snowfall was so exciting.

Almost 64 years ago 
I was born on a snowday.

My father had to shovel the driveway, 
which was on a slant, 
before he could get the car out.

My mother was quite worried that she would not make it to the hospital
before giving birth to me.

They made it in time and for many years (in March) 
it snowed on my birthday.

Is it cold where you live?
Do you have snow?

What do you like to cook when the mercury drops?
Do you make a big pot of soup or stew?
Perhaps you bake bread or buns?

Do you have a favourite recipe that you can share?

Stay warm and cozy!

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~

Tuesday, December 11, 2018

December ~ love, loss and memories.


Are you ready for the Festive Season?
No matter how hard we try to make Christmas special 
we cannot be prepared or predict what might happen.

Christmas has always been one of my favourite holidays.

Family, friends, giving to others, baking, bright lights and song.
It's never been a picture postcard storybook Christmas 
but that is what makes it special
we try 
but
because we are human things can go sideways...


This past weekend we went over to the cottage and rode on the Salish Orca.
(our regular ferry is out for annual maintenance)

While we were driving onto the ferry my husband's cellphone rang
it was the nurse from the care home.

 Mr. HB's mom, who is 100, took a turn. 
The next morning
my husband boarded an early ferry and returned to town...
his mother passed away within a few minutes after he arrived.

We have lost our beloved matriarch
the last of the long lived Scottish family.
It is the end of an era...

Elaine lead a long and rich life 
she was a spunky woman, 
"a force to be reckoned with"
her gifts and talents were many
she will be missed by all of us.

I feel blessed to have met her when I was fifteen 
 she taught me so much...
she was generous with her time, fiercely loyal to her family,
 she shared so many wonderful things with all of us
her tried and true recipes
boat skills, crocheting, card games,
how to live within a budget
everything from hostessing tips to the full on turkey feast.

She will be missed...

Fortunately we all have many years of great memories to recall.
I am confident that they will help comfort and sustain us 
in the days and weeks ahead.


I made a pasta dinner for my husbands' return to the island.
I knew that he would need a warm hug and a hot meal.
We rely on comfort food to help soothe us in times of distress.


We hunkered down in the cottage as the skies grew dark and ominous...


The weekend weather was very stormy...
rain pelting sideways with powerful gusty winds
the seas churned up with choppy waves covered in white caps.

I started reading this new book by Beatrice Colin...
it is set in Paris around the time that the Eiffel Tower was under construction.



We spent most days quietly thinking of her
 reminding each other of our favourite memories.
Laughing and weeping.

We were cozy and warmed by the fire
while outside the storms raged on...


We ventured out when there was a break in the rain...
for a welcome breath of fresh salty air.


We went to the Chocolate Shop where Mr. HB enjoyed a rich hot chocolate 
I opted for a salted caramel mocha...
I've never tasted one before today!
(it was so tasty!)
I purchsed some of their delicious chocolates for a few people on our Christmas list.


Dessert in a mug.


Looking to the light...

Holding fast to the memories of Christmases past
when all our loved ones were gathered...
several generations at the tables
wearing our paper hats from the Xmas crackers
an older family member saying grace
before
 we dined on turkey and all the trimmings.

This year there are many empty chairs...
we will gather around
in their memory
and 
toast to them.

Wishing you a Very Happy Holiday Season.

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~

Saturday, October 13, 2018

Todays tidbits...right here in black and white!

Later I will share a few new things here in The Humble Bungalow...


first things first...

my creative juices have been waning for awhile

writing has taken a back seat for now

my energy is otherwise engaged in reading and knitting

There have been some moody moments, thinking about and remembering mom.

Yesterday I bought a latte and sat on the beach
where my sister and I spread mom's ashes.

It was a beautiful afternoon,
the seas gently rippled
and
glistening in the bright sunshine.

Waters ebb and flow...
moods alter

a white lab comes by for a pat
its owner follows ~ apolgizes for the intrusion
not bothered at all by the dog
I continue to sit and savour the latte
thinking how close I feel to mom

calmed by the lapping of the waves
restored
peace follows
a positive energy has returned.


A pretty pink
 pop of colour 
 lewisia blooms.


I have been indulging in a wee bit of retail therapy...
nothing outrageous
but a few things that caught my eye.


Emma Bridgewater Black Toast pattern is a favourite of mine...
I found these wee picnic pieces at The Bungalow on Estevan Avenue.
Too cute to pass up on and fit perfectly in my small insulated picnic tote.


Lands' End packable down jacket 
it will keep the chill away on my winter walks.


New black napkins
white mini pumpkins 
for the table
We are hosting a dinner party
I'll post on the menu and the table settings in a future post.


Our neighbours' cat napping in our garden in a patch of sunshine.
There are two cats, each look identical, so I can never tell them apart.


I didn't mean to disturb its slumber

the ragdoll cats that live across the street are so friendly.


Time for a stretch on the gravel drive...

Time for me to get back to my dinner party prep...

Thank you for taking the time to stop by and read The Humble Bungalow Blog.

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~

Friday, June 1, 2018

OOTD...

I've been wearing white jeans and white linen pants these past few weeks and mixing them with denim shirts, chambray tops and here with a thrifted denim jean jacket.


NYDJ white jeans
Marks Work Warehouse white top
Guess silver sneakers
No Name denim jacket
(the tag was cut out)


I am at Marshall's looking for a new top to wear with my dressy white UP pants.

You can see my messy hair...
it's growing 
but not as fast as I would like it to!
I have to persevere and be patient until the short layers are longer.


I found a top and some birthday gifts for our darling granddaughter Isla 
who is turning 8 in June!
Where does the time go?
She is growing up just so fast!


The top is striped in blue and white
the silhouette is flattering as it camouflages some of my wobbly bits!


The garden is keeping me quite busy these days...
watering all the potted plants
 dead heading the roses
weeding.

I just get "caught up" in one section and then I have to start all over again!


I love being able to pop outside and pick our roses 
 bring them inside and arrange a bouquet
or as in this case give them to a friend
who hosted a celebration of life for a former colleague 
who died unexpectedly
at the age of 70.

Which reminds us all that we need to live each day to the fullest.

Carpe Diem ~ seize the day!

We paid tribute to our dear friend and colleague Ray 
in a beautiful garden 
where we used to have our year end staff parties.

His wife attended and there were lots of hugs, tears, a toast and many stories were told.
She was very fragile 
but was so glad that she was there 
as she realized how much he meant to all of us 
 we were able to tell her about the kind things that he did for so many 
 students and the staff.




Here are two David Austin Graham Thomas roses.
They are heavily scented large sunny yellow blooms.

If you grow many roses as I do you'll come to realize

That they require attention and TLC
like offspring
if they are to thrive and grow.

I only choose varieties that are fragrant, hardy and are repeat bloomers.

Thank you for stopping by The Humble Bungalow Blog.
Hope your weekend has some fun packed into it.

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~