OOTD or what I wore on date night.

It's date night here in The Humble Bungalow and this is my OOTD.

I took a beading course at a local shop and this necklace was the first thing I made.

Pearls and Labradorite.

I have made a few things since but I'd need a refresher course if I were to take it up again.

Land's End layering tank

Aerie wisp of a cardigan

metallic crinkle skirt in pewter by Spanner

Sofft shoes

I gave myself a home spa treatment ~ a manicure. pedicure and facial.

I surprised myself by actioning the pedicure

with

less mid section to get in the way

I was able to bend over without huffing and puffing!

Look at those eyebrows people.

There are no longer a flimsy excuse.

Gosh little things really do excite me!

~  ~  ~

We ate some delicious high calorie Thai food and then went for a walk
before going to see Bill Maher at the Royal Theatre.
Mr.HB and our friend Julie, of catering fame, are fans.
I was a tag~a~long.

I love the ornate details of this heritage theatre.

The event was SOLD OUT and the audience a mix of the elderly, boomers and the younger generation.
Bill's focus is on American politics and religion and he's irreverent and rude.
Any excuse for a date with my mate.
Gotta keep the love alive and dating is such a great way to focus on a relationship.

If you haven't taken your spouse out in awhile start planning a date...
you'll be surprised how it rekindles long lost feelings especially if you have neglected this part of your marriage.

I think a picnic on a beach or in a park is a great place to start...

What would be your dream date?

Unbelievable!

On my walk I saw something so strange that I had to look twice...
it was not a bird sighting or a whale spy hopping in the bay.
It was...
well you'll have to see it to believe it.

Scene

as seen

 on top of a man made rocky groyne

in the bay not too far from The Humble Bungalow.

Old love seat and chairs 

that someone has obviously dumped there.

In my opinion this is littering of the first order

it looks ridiculous 

and 

makes our pristine waterfront look like a tip.

Bypassers were stopping their cars and hopping out to take pictures.

Some brave ladies, in heels no less...

scaled the rocks and logs and took photos of each other sitting 

on the

precariously perched pieces of furniture.

I stopped my walk to capture this image 

and then hastened on my merry way.

This must have been done under the cover of darkness

no one in their right mind would attempt this during daylight hours

I am sure there would be a substantial fined levied if the city caught them.

Maybe it was a Graduation prank...

there are lots of grad ceremonies going on and schools do try to "outdo" each other.

UBC engineers used to hang VW bugs from the Lion's Gate Bridge

at least they did that when I worked for UBC.

(that was back in the mid 70's)

Did your graduating class participate in any pranks?

I cannot remember what, if anything, my class did

but hey that was in 1973....

and we were still the peace and love generation.

Mr. HB and I were high school sweethearts

we've been together since I was 15 years old...

this is our song

and I am still in love with him....

Have a great Friday....

Hostess

XO

Anniversary thoughts...cards and roses...

Here we are a few years back 

snapped out front of the Humble Bungalow

just before we went out for our anniversay dinner.

Jude the Obscure

Rose, most fabulous

Metscan, materfamilias and myself are all celebrating our 36th year of marriage this year.

I commented on mette's blog about some thoughts of marriage and wonder how it is that we have managed to be a couple for so long.

I met Mr. HB when I was 15...I'm 55 now.

There must be a great deal of luck involved

I know that we have changed and morphed into the people we are today

as we were starry eyed lovers innocent  and green when we walked down the aisle of that church so many years ago.

We went from our family homes into the arms of each other

partners in life, for life

and that was the unwritten attitude that I embraced

I never ever thought that marriage would be hard work

(I was surprised, a little, I was so naive)

I never imagined that we would divorce

I don't know why 

I just felt that we would be together forever

maybe just that abiding belief was enough

 life and events have shaped us and made us grow closer 

we have adapted

we have had differences

there have been times when I wanted to walk away

but somehow

we have worked out the kinks

so far

one never can sit back and take it for granted

Many of these anniversaries have been celebrated with a romantic dinner.
We celebrated this year, with lovely daughter and we watched The Batchelorette!
She cooked her delicious Thai curry with chicken and rice...a bottle of bubbly made an appearance and soon disappeared!

at the risk of sounding sappy...

I do feel very blessed

I am grateful

What things are important for a long and happy marriage?

I feel they must be different for every couple

what rings true for you?

Please share your thoughts