Wednesday thoughts January. 2018....

I finally purchased a new IPhone case...

my other one was chipped and the coating was peeling off

 every time I looked at it it made me cringe so why it took me so long to find a new one is beyond me.

I'm experiencing disrupted sleep

it is most likely stress

but

like many women of my age 

who frequently find that our sleep wake rhythms change

the nights feel rather long when one lies awake 

listening to the ticking of the clock

I am trying to come to terms with these new sleep patterns

but it is not easy.

In the morning when I wake up and look in the mirror 

I see that my eyes are puffy 

and my skin has creases on the side of my face

from lying on my pillowcase.

I  googled "wrinkles on the face from sleeping" and to my surprise discovered that if one uses a satin or silk pillowcase that these wrinkles will be reduced.

I was really skeptical 

but with several leading dermatologists endorsing the product 

I thought that I better give it a try...

 after one night of sleep

I am thrilled to tell you they really do WORK!

I did not wake up "Feeling Glamorous like the box indicates 

but I woke up and was happy to see that the deep creases were not imprinted on my cheek!

I also have introduced a healthy product into my skincare regime

At bedtime after cleansing my skin

I apply a small amount of coconut oil on my face.

It is super emollient and feels so soft in the morning.

This large jar was under $10 and it will last a long time...

and you can use it all over the body.

I am taking life one day at a time...

seeking small comforts and snippets of beauty

where I can find it in my daily round...

it is a lot harder to find than it used to be

and 

if I had a magic wand I would wave it and erase all the bad stuff in our world.

I will continue...

to do my best.

Home keeping

cooking

taking care of my husband

offering support to our family

tending to our cats 

and 

walking.

sharing random acts of kindness

Cocooning and recharging....

behind closed doors.

Its also the time of year when I like to replace some of my lingerie

so this is on the top of my list of things to do 

perhaps I'll get around to it this week.

Have you got a long list of things to do this month?

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~

Finding my way...

Thank you so much for your supportive emails and comments on my previous post.

Many of you wrote about your personal tragedies and situations that are much more dire than what our family is going through and upon reflection this past week I have been able to regain my sense of perspective

coming to terms with my feelings of helplessness.

I've put my energies into action 

working on domestic chores

focusing on the jobs at hand.

It is not a cure all but it feels good to accomplish something that needs doing.

I am glad that my kitchen does not look like this one

but it CAN look rather messy if I do not stay on top of the cleaning.

Thank goodness for the auto clean program...

it makes the job so much easier.

I've been chiselling away at my "to do" list...

the feeling of accomplishment 

is a reward

when I am able to cross another job off the list.

Maintaining leather 

Coach bag, shoes and boots pays off as they look better and last longer.

 Fresh Shampoo

for  

my make up brushes once a month...

a simple routine that takes just a few minutes.

This wee orchid was a gift from a friend 

when Mom died on my birthday last March.

It is blooming again!

This orchid has a double row of blooms...

speaking of blooms our Amaryllis is absolutely stunning!

Each stem has four flowers!

There is another stem about to bloom.

We have never ever had an amaryllis like this one.

Low WW point lunch yesterday

after a busy day working in the Humble Bungalow.

Did you watch the Golden Globes last night?

Oprah's speech was so inspiring...

I watched it twice.

A stack of books await...

Speaking of inspiring.

I found this wonderful quote on Pinterest...

Hope that you find some comfort and joy in your week.

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~

Goodbye 2017...

We've just said farewell to our friends after spending a few days at Quarter Deck Cottage.

We shared a few idyllic days 

walking, laughing, dining, and chatting...

Good friends are such a gift and I am so grateful to have them in our lives.

It has been a difficult year for us and I am not sad to say goodbye to 2017.

Many things have contributed to the current sadness in our family.

A sadness so deep that it has rocked us to the core.

Shock, disappointment and grief 

emotions so strong that at times it has crippled me.

There is very little that I can do 

to change the situation that affects our family.

It is beyond my control.

 I will help and support our family to the best of my ability.

Craving a space that is calm

peaceful

I find it in simple routines...

The repetitive motion of knitting 

walking along the seafront

ironing linens

chopping vegetables

sipping tea

reading with the cat slumbering on my lap

I am conscious of inviting gentle rhythms 

of everyday living

into my daily round.

Not sure how things will turn out...

it is a situation

which can, 

if I allow it,

 to rob me of sleep

make me weep

prevent me from feeling contentment and happiness.

My wish is for a Peaceful

resolution for our family.

Happiness in the New Year might be awhile coming but I am hopeful.

Best wishes to you all for 2018.

Thank you for stopping by...

Hostess

XO

This Hostess has been shopping ...and a few festive touches in The Humble Bungalow

I've been naughty!

Guilty YES!

I bought something for myself...

I went into the store "just to browse" 

I tried on a few cozy sweaters and perused the racks of the Saint James section, Royal Robbins and then the Eileen Fisher group of garments.

 A tunic top for tall gals but a dress for short me.

The hem sits slightly above the knee and it drapes so well 

the fabric is super soft and it flatters without clinging.

The WIN thrift shop did not disappoint either...

French Dressing shirt in black and white...

great for white pants or black skinny ponte knit pants.

Also the black and white Hermes scarf, probably my favourite will look great tied at the neck.

There are a few festive touches here in The Humble Bungalow.

We don't do a lot of decorating but we have a tree lit with white lights

 a peachy pink poinsettia

candles

wee trees on the mantle with the Ojibwa duck decoys.

Sadly we are unable to put our vintage glass baubles on the tree because the cats undress the tree and bat the ornaments around and they break...

Please excuse our messy fireplace 

Some silver baubles from my childhood home with two vintage silver pieces.

White fairy lights and the silver balls on the front rose arbour.

Our wee tree with white fairy lights on the front porch.

Reindeer votive holders

glitter cones

sit atop

our silver tray

which was a wedding gift.

The seniors turkey luncheon at the club was a lot of work but such fun.

Those of us who volunteered were treated to lunch and a glass of wine 

which we ate while the choir performed 

then we served the desserts and tea and coffee 

before washing up all the dishes.

This year there were 80 seniors in attendance...it is one of the many fundraisers that we have at the club.

We were thrilled to go to our darling granddaughter Isla's school 

where we watched the annual winter concert. 

How are your holiday plans shaping up?

Thank you for stopping by The Humble Bungalow

Merry Christmas!

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~

Knitting, roses and a DIY gift

It is such a busy time of year for many of us...
festive events, shopping, baking, wrapping, annual meetings, and volunteering to help the needy. They all seem to happen in the first few weeks before Christmas.

This week there are a few things left to do...
delivering gifts, food shopping, making cranberry relish, a trim at the hairdresser, lunch out with the girls, wrapping a few last minute presents.

I have been working on a new project for darling Miss Isla,
our 7 year grand daughter...
she wanted me to knit something with "flowers" on it
so I thought that the Boneyard shawl pattern might do the trick and I could add my own flowers.

I've caught the cold and cough that is making the rounds so by staying home a few days and I managed to finish her shawl.

The Boneyard pattern is available on Ravelry free to download.

It is a versatile pattern and you can use a variety of yarns.

I used cotton (the weight used to knit dish cloths) as I had in my stash

5mm circular needles with a 30 inch wire.

It looks quite cozy.

Hope she likes it.

I am going to make another one 

using a fingering weight wool yarn as it will drape well.

With the lighter yarn I will be using smaller needles 

so it will take longer to knit up, but the time spent will be worth it...

knitting is very meditative and soothing

and it goes well with mugs of tea!

Having a knitting project on hand helps me stop and sit for a bit in the afternoon after I have been busy in the kitchen or garden...

when the weather is inclement and I stay home 

it is wonderful to have something to keep my hands busy.

Jude the Obscure

David Austin Rose

The fall weather has turned this usually pale yellowy rose a rich apricot.

It is so unusual to see it blooming at this time of year.

I tried picking one of the blooms but the petals scattered like confetti...

Our weather has been mild recently 

but the news forecast tonight 

says there is a cold snap on its way.

Snow perhaps?

BRRR

(more time to knit!)

Are you looking for a last minute DIY gift?

How about one that is a quick and easy?

This spiced nut recipe is super tasty.

Spiced nuts

In a large bowl :

6 cups mixed nuts

(I used pecans and hazelnuts)

handful (maybe 3/4 -1 cup) dried cranberries

Mix together:

4 tbsp. maple syrup

grated rind of two large navel oranges

5 tbsp brown sugar

2 tbsp light oil

1 tbsp vanilla

3 tsp ground cinammon

pinch each of cayenne and nutmeg

Pour over top of the nut and fruit mixture mix well.

Bake at 350 degrees on a Silpat lined sheet pan for 20 minutes.

Turning the nut mixture after about 10 minutes return to oven.

Cool before

packing it into jars 

tie with a ribbon and add a tag and perhaps a sprig of holly.

Makes a tasty Hostess gift...

I sampled a few mouthfuls just to make sure it was up to the usual standards!

Hope that you are enjoying these last few days before the holidays.

All the best to you

and

thank you for stopping by 

The Humble Bungalow Blog.

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~