Flowers for the wedding and my OOTD.

A group of friends got together to arrange flowers for the wedding of my best friend's niece.
It was a well organized assembly line for the table arrangements and corsages.
M who has done quite a few weddings showed her crew which flowers to use and how to build the bouquets.
Once created, the posies were tied and popped into vintage sealer jars of water.
I stood a little ways away getting the promised interior flowers done and was happy listening to the friendly banter and talk of weddings and grand children with a great group of friends.

I busied myself with the two vintage wicker urns and flowers for inside the house.

we worked under the Marquis tent as it was sprinkling rain

one of the corsages

Front hallway with Jude the Obscure in a Weller vase

guest room

Dining room table 

limelight hydrangeas and Lady's Mantle

guest room

new upper bathroom

(see previous post for the sneak peek)

inside the heritage designated tea house

looking out to the tent space

and lawns beyond

Weddings are such an exciting event especially when they involve people that we adore and dearly love

we're "almost family" 

and consider ourselves fortunate to be included in this celebration of love.

The sun shone for the wedding and we had a fabulous time.

It was such a memorable day

and the happy couple are spending their honeymoon in Hawaii.

I wish them many years of health and happiness.

My BFF's renovation ~ a sneak peek.

One day I plan to do a very large post on my BFF's heritage home and garden...
she has given me permission and believe me when you see her home you will love it.

Today I have decided to show you a sneak peek of the upstairs bathroom which is located off their vast bedroom and sitting area that overlooks Haro Strait.
I'll show you that when they have it decorated and finished.

picture taken by my BFF

the light fixtures, mirrors, cabinets and pictures are still to come

(that's why it's a sneak peek)

Look at all the marble

and the floors are heated!

I can just imagine soaking in the tub

windows wide

watching the boats go by...

I brought over the small float as a bathroom gift.

The shades of green look like they were meant to be together.

Restoration Hardware towels

on an arts and crafts shelf

garden roses

of course!

I love the vintage vase she chose to use

it reminds me of sea glass.

Two sinks are on opposite walls

(if the sink looks familiar we have the same one!)

The glass doors will be up soon...

and we mustn't forget the WC

They have been working hard and co-ordinating the trades exceptionally well.

I hope that you enjoyed the sneak peek.

Thank you to my BFF for allowing me to show off her great space before it was complete.

On the reno front downstairs in The Humble Bungalow

we have the tile lady on the scene this week working in our bathroom.

The woodwork is finished and Mr. HB needs to paint prime and paint it...

I hope to show you some progress before you've completely forgotten that we are having a reno!

Date night our 38th anniversary and thoughts on marriage...

Our 38th anniversary was Friday July the 20th.
We kept it simple and went out for an early dinner as we had both had very busy days...
(I was arranging flowers for the wedding and Mr/ HB was working on the renovation downstairs)
we sipped a cocktail and dined on some some delicious food in one of our favourite local eateries.

Zambri's used to be a tiny hole in the wall in an out of the way spot with almost a cult following of dedicated diners.
Local foodies and chefs were known to frequent the place on their days off and some strayed in after hours to see what was left after the crowds had departed.
It has moved and is now located in the upscale architectural gem, The Atrium building.
The food tastes as good as it did when we sat on mismatched chairs and distressed wooden tables that invariably needed to be leveled with coasters to keep them from wobbling!
Their new decor is state of the art,
crisp linen table cloths,
twinkling lights above a bar
an open concept inside the restaurant and then Atrium space where we sat, which feels airy and bright.

a Tanqueray martini

~ ~ ~

 bread and olives

( I ate one wee slice of bread ~ the olives were a sweet bite of salty heaven)

we shared a Caesar salad

pasta for our main course

mine was penne with gorgonzola and green peas

I've had this many times and I cannot tell you how much I love it.

Mr. HB had pasta with Dungeness Crab Ragu

deliciously

satisfied 

we took ourselves home 

for a cozy evening watching our new fave show Newsroom by the brilliant Aaron Sorkin.

38 years is a long time plus we knew each other for several years before getting married

We have no secret as to why we have managed to stay married so long

but we ALWAYS celebrate our anniversary

cards always 

gifts optional.

Mr. HB has been very generous over the years 

I have some special pieces of jewelry that he has given me to mark the occasion of our 10th, 25th, and 30th dates.

In earlier times when the children were young and money was tight we'd have our parents take the kids overnight so that we could go out and enjoy a bite of food together. 

Dinner out once or twice a year back then was a real treat.

Things change, 

kids grow up and move out 

and we are fortunate enough that we still enjoy each other's company.

Every evening when Mr. HB comes home from work 

we take the time to sit and chat and catch up on each other's days doings.

I think communication is huge in a marriage.

Sharing dreams and having goals

planning ahead

working side by side

in the house and in the garden 

never taking the other for granted

compliments go a long way ~ they must be genuine and heartfelt

apologizing when you know you are wrong

sharing laughter

are all things that we have worked on to keep our marriage strong

I do think there is luck involved

we were fortunate enough to meet in our teens

 still surrounded by friends that we grew up with 

who are also long time married folks

probably helps a lot...

I highly recommend this restaurant

it has won many awards

and we have never been disappointed by the service or the food.

Do you have a special place that you like to go?

If a young bride were to ask you for tips on the longevity of marriage what would you say?

Statement pieces

On occasion, when I am going out to something rather arty I like to wear unusual jewelry.
Jewelry that makes a statement.
If it could talk it might say I am not "pedestrian."
I really am...
but by choosing jewelry that may convey a little daring and a shout out
 "look at me" I feel like I have risen to the occasion.

Here are a few of my fun pieces to illustrate my point...

all pieces are vintage and found locally

The necklace is by Guy Vidal a Canadian designer

it has two faces

very modernist in pewter.

The strange ET characters are from Denmark by Tennesmed.

The antique brooch with the natural pearl is unmarked

a gift from my lovely daughter.

All these pieces have been worn to events where they have garnered interest from complete strangers.

I think of them as conversation starters.

They come in handy when I am standing in the lobby waiting for the second act to start and Mr. HB has gone in search of refreshments...

smiles, remarks and queries break the ice and offer an easy opening for a casual chit chat.

I notice the other women who are wearing large colourful ethnic beads and baubles too.

There are usually stories behind these gems

souvenirs from trips abroad

or found in

antique shops and galleries from around the world

or perhaps thrifted from a local shop.

I am drawn to 

lapis lazuli

turquoise

amber

cherry red garnets

nuggets of jade

twisted strands of mixed metals and stones

the meshing of unlikely partners 

that go together to create something of lasting beauty.

I am always on the lookout for a knock out piece to add to my small collection.

sterling designed bangle

presenting many personalities

Is there something in your jewelry drawer that makes a statement?

How do you feel when you wear it?

Do you feel more creative just putting it on?

What statements do your accessories make?

Loot shoot in the limelight...

It's been awhile since Mother had her spell of illness and she is slowly improving.
Thank goodness for our medical system and our wonderful family doctor.
Her energy is not quite back where she feels like driving so either my sister or I chauffeur her around town.
Today we had a wonderful call from her saying she'd love to go out for lunch and do some shopping.
We are understanding and devoted daughters, and so jumped at the chance to enjoy some girl time.
Sis drove her vintage BMW convertible...
I must confess that I am the only one in my entire family that does not drive a Beamer...
our son and his wife each have their own...maybe it's time I trade in my old Volvo!

We had a delicious "ladies who lunch" spinach salad and a pot of Earl Grey tea at Adrienne's Tea Garden.
Totally refreshed, we hit the shops.
Sunday's Snowflakes was having a sale and my sister bought 3 things, all tops.
I bought a black BOHO vibe skirt.
Then Mother and I got our pearl fix on with locally designed sterling and freshwater baroque pearl earrings.

I picked up the dress from the tailor's, the one I am wearing to the wedding.
Remember I bought 2 because they were 50% off.

Dress for the garden wedding.

Slimming V neck with ample coverage for the "girls"

contoured for my hourglass figure 

fully lined and it's jersey fabric skims the body beautifully

in a cool tropical print

feels very feminine

I forget that I need to pay more on occasion for a great fit that flatters.

Casual dress for daytime

navy and white

slimming forgiving and so easy to put on.

I've worn this with my jean jacket.

classic navy and white

so crisp for summer

long twisted silver drops with vast baroque pearls at the bottom

from the Gallery at Mattick's

funky BOHO skirt

can be worn with capri tights, boots or sandals

a fun piece of clothing to wear.

behold the magnificence of The Humble Bungalow Garden limelight hydrangeas

these are thriving and fill in a large space

they just sing happy to me

Lovely limelight hydrangeas and Lady's Mantle

and beautiful marriage of green.

It's a sunny morning

 I'm feeling there's a lightness of spirit 

filtering through the windows

and it's making me smile with gratitude.

Wishing you a wonderful day.

Hostess

XO