Finding my way...

Thank you so much for your supportive emails and comments on my previous post.

Many of you wrote about your personal tragedies and situations that are much more dire than what our family is going through and upon reflection this past week I have been able to regain my sense of perspective

coming to terms with my feelings of helplessness.

I've put my energies into action 

working on domestic chores

focusing on the jobs at hand.

It is not a cure all but it feels good to accomplish something that needs doing.

I am glad that my kitchen does not look like this one

but it CAN look rather messy if I do not stay on top of the cleaning.

Thank goodness for the auto clean program...

it makes the job so much easier.

I've been chiselling away at my "to do" list...

the feeling of accomplishment 

is a reward

when I am able to cross another job off the list.

Maintaining leather 

Coach bag, shoes and boots pays off as they look better and last longer.

 Fresh Shampoo

for  

my make up brushes once a month...

a simple routine that takes just a few minutes.

This wee orchid was a gift from a friend 

when Mom died on my birthday last March.

It is blooming again!

This orchid has a double row of blooms...

speaking of blooms our Amaryllis is absolutely stunning!

Each stem has four flowers!

There is another stem about to bloom.

We have never ever had an amaryllis like this one.

Low WW point lunch yesterday

after a busy day working in the Humble Bungalow.

Did you watch the Golden Globes last night?

Oprah's speech was so inspiring...

I watched it twice.

A stack of books await...

Speaking of inspiring.

I found this wonderful quote on Pinterest...

Hope that you find some comfort and joy in your week.

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~

Goodbye 2017...

We've just said farewell to our friends after spending a few days at Quarter Deck Cottage.

We shared a few idyllic days 

walking, laughing, dining, and chatting...

Good friends are such a gift and I am so grateful to have them in our lives.

It has been a difficult year for us and I am not sad to say goodbye to 2017.

Many things have contributed to the current sadness in our family.

A sadness so deep that it has rocked us to the core.

Shock, disappointment and grief 

emotions so strong that at times it has crippled me.

There is very little that I can do 

to change the situation that affects our family.

It is beyond my control.

 I will help and support our family to the best of my ability.

Craving a space that is calm

peaceful

I find it in simple routines...

The repetitive motion of knitting 

walking along the seafront

ironing linens

chopping vegetables

sipping tea

reading with the cat slumbering on my lap

I am conscious of inviting gentle rhythms 

of everyday living

into my daily round.

Not sure how things will turn out...

it is a situation

which can, 

if I allow it,

 to rob me of sleep

make me weep

prevent me from feeling contentment and happiness.

My wish is for a Peaceful

resolution for our family.

Happiness in the New Year might be awhile coming but I am hopeful.

Best wishes to you all for 2018.

Thank you for stopping by...

Hostess

XO

This Hostess has been shopping ...and a few festive touches in The Humble Bungalow

I've been naughty!

Guilty YES!

I bought something for myself...

I went into the store "just to browse" 

I tried on a few cozy sweaters and perused the racks of the Saint James section, Royal Robbins and then the Eileen Fisher group of garments.

 A tunic top for tall gals but a dress for short me.

The hem sits slightly above the knee and it drapes so well 

the fabric is super soft and it flatters without clinging.

The WIN thrift shop did not disappoint either...

French Dressing shirt in black and white...

great for white pants or black skinny ponte knit pants.

Also the black and white Hermes scarf, probably my favourite will look great tied at the neck.

There are a few festive touches here in The Humble Bungalow.

We don't do a lot of decorating but we have a tree lit with white lights

 a peachy pink poinsettia

candles

wee trees on the mantle with the Ojibwa duck decoys.

Sadly we are unable to put our vintage glass baubles on the tree because the cats undress the tree and bat the ornaments around and they break...

Please excuse our messy fireplace 

Some silver baubles from my childhood home with two vintage silver pieces.

White fairy lights and the silver balls on the front rose arbour.

Our wee tree with white fairy lights on the front porch.

Reindeer votive holders

glitter cones

sit atop

our silver tray

which was a wedding gift.

The seniors turkey luncheon at the club was a lot of work but such fun.

Those of us who volunteered were treated to lunch and a glass of wine 

which we ate while the choir performed 

then we served the desserts and tea and coffee 

before washing up all the dishes.

This year there were 80 seniors in attendance...it is one of the many fundraisers that we have at the club.

We were thrilled to go to our darling granddaughter Isla's school 

where we watched the annual winter concert. 

How are your holiday plans shaping up?

Thank you for stopping by The Humble Bungalow

Merry Christmas!

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~

Knitting, roses and a DIY gift

It is such a busy time of year for many of us...
festive events, shopping, baking, wrapping, annual meetings, and volunteering to help the needy. They all seem to happen in the first few weeks before Christmas.

This week there are a few things left to do...
delivering gifts, food shopping, making cranberry relish, a trim at the hairdresser, lunch out with the girls, wrapping a few last minute presents.

I have been working on a new project for darling Miss Isla,
our 7 year grand daughter...
she wanted me to knit something with "flowers" on it
so I thought that the Boneyard shawl pattern might do the trick and I could add my own flowers.

I've caught the cold and cough that is making the rounds so by staying home a few days and I managed to finish her shawl.

The Boneyard pattern is available on Ravelry free to download.

It is a versatile pattern and you can use a variety of yarns.

I used cotton (the weight used to knit dish cloths) as I had in my stash

5mm circular needles with a 30 inch wire.

It looks quite cozy.

Hope she likes it.

I am going to make another one 

using a fingering weight wool yarn as it will drape well.

With the lighter yarn I will be using smaller needles 

so it will take longer to knit up, but the time spent will be worth it...

knitting is very meditative and soothing

and it goes well with mugs of tea!

Having a knitting project on hand helps me stop and sit for a bit in the afternoon after I have been busy in the kitchen or garden...

when the weather is inclement and I stay home 

it is wonderful to have something to keep my hands busy.

Jude the Obscure

David Austin Rose

The fall weather has turned this usually pale yellowy rose a rich apricot.

It is so unusual to see it blooming at this time of year.

I tried picking one of the blooms but the petals scattered like confetti...

Our weather has been mild recently 

but the news forecast tonight 

says there is a cold snap on its way.

Snow perhaps?

BRRR

(more time to knit!)

Are you looking for a last minute DIY gift?

How about one that is a quick and easy?

This spiced nut recipe is super tasty.

Spiced nuts

In a large bowl :

6 cups mixed nuts

(I used pecans and hazelnuts)

handful (maybe 3/4 -1 cup) dried cranberries

Mix together:

4 tbsp. maple syrup

grated rind of two large navel oranges

5 tbsp brown sugar

2 tbsp light oil

1 tbsp vanilla

3 tsp ground cinammon

pinch each of cayenne and nutmeg

Pour over top of the nut and fruit mixture mix well.

Bake at 350 degrees on a Silpat lined sheet pan for 20 minutes.

Turning the nut mixture after about 10 minutes return to oven.

Cool before

packing it into jars 

tie with a ribbon and add a tag and perhaps a sprig of holly.

Makes a tasty Hostess gift...

I sampled a few mouthfuls just to make sure it was up to the usual standards!

Hope that you are enjoying these last few days before the holidays.

All the best to you

and

thank you for stopping by 

The Humble Bungalow Blog.

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~

A simple Hostess gift....

Every year I make a simple chocolate bark.
It has become a tradition in our Humble Bungalow...
it is a tasty treat.
I love to package it up and give it as a Hostess gift.

I use 225 g package of semi sweet chocolate...

melt it gently in a double boiler or in a micro wave.

Be very careful not to burn it.

I vary the ingredients from year to year.

Sometimes I use almond slices and dried cranberries.

This year 

I am using pistachios and candied ginger.

I roughly chop about a cup of pistachios and 1/2 cup of candied ginger.

Line a sheet pan with parchment paper

pour the melted chocolate on top and using a spatula spread it out.

Sprinkle the chocolate with the nuts and ginger 

then put it in the refrigerator to harden.

Break it apart and put into cello bags or a pretty container.

I keep it in the fridge.

Ready for snacking or a handy gift!

This is the "test batch" 

we ate it all up 

 I need to make some more!

I plan to make a double batch next time.

How are your holiday preparations coming along?

I am one of the many volunteers who are serving a turkey luncheon to the seniors at the club so I must close for now.

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~

The Festive Season is well and truly upon us!

Ready or not the festive season is truly in full swing!

Hope that you are hanging in there!

We added a few seasonal decorations to dress up The Humble Bungalow

The faux tree is up and wrapped with white fairy lights.

There is a wreath on the front door...

 boughs and red berries

mandarin oranges.

I spent a lovely hour 

lunching with a good friend at one of my favourite spots...

Pure Vanilla.

The Festive season can get far too busy as there is so much to do.

Cooking, baking, entertaining, being entertained, shopping, cards, decorating, wrapping presents and so it goes...

I need to remind myself to slow down 

and 

savour the simple things in life.

Lets take a collective deep breath...

stop and smell the flowers.

Jude The Obscure is STILL blooming!

Hope that you find some time to savour a few quiet moments this week.

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~

Mother Nature's paintbrush...

Frosty morning at Quarter Deck Cottage.

The peace and quiet is restorative and so soothing.

Time to slow down, reflect and take stock of all our blessings.

Rainy morning

time to take a moment and be grateful.

Savouring the stillness and listening to what is in our heart...

taking notes and planning

perhaps trying something new.

Perfect time for hunkering down with a great book.

I was sad when I finished this book as I did not want my session at Parisian Charm School to end!

Jamie and I will be collaborating on a blog post about her newest book 

which BTW I totally LOVE!

Clouds lifting and the sun is starting to make an appearance...

hope to get out for a walk in the crisp air.

Time to go for a walk...

a gentle breeze

sunshine

the gulls are swooping and diving into the Salish Sea.

Serene and pristine Peter Cove.

A snug little bay with mooring buoys for the boats of the summer residents.

Kelp and driftwood wash up on the beaches after the storms.

The glorious beauty of Mother Nature at every turn...

so grateful to be alive and in this magical place.

Watching the ferries come and go...

the gentle ebb and flow of the tides

the rhythm that is humming just outside our door.

Our tray on the coffee table with a simple sea inspired collection

shells from the beaches

a few feathers gathered on our walks

the piece of coral a gift from a dear friend

a lavender soy candle made on the island.

The dining room table dressed in a similar fashion.

A book found in the used section of the Island Book Shop...

a new day dawns

there will be ferries to watch

ravens will be cawing

with a mug of hot coffee in hand

my thoughts stray 

as I watch the waves on The Salish Sea beyond our deck.

Views from the sofa...

change as the morning light moves across the Salish Sea

illuminating the trees and valleys 

of Vancouver Island...

Hope that you are safe and snug in your part of the world.

Thank you for popping by The Humble Bungalow Blog today.

~ Be Well and Be Kind ~