tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5385735624350758337.post2172832988039093741..comments2024-03-29T07:07:56.211-07:00Comments on hostess of the humble bungalow: Balancing Act...hostess of the humble bungalowhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06453827257671312902noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5385735624350758337.post-11282165780178060672015-08-12T09:25:10.672-07:002015-08-12T09:25:10.672-07:00You're so right. We all need to listen to our ...You're so right. We all need to listen to our bodies and souls. Take some time to smell those David Austins. I'm reading "The Red Notebook" right now. Enjoying it also.Sandra Sallinhttp://www.apartfrommyart.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5385735624350758337.post-74151010382312232132015-08-09T16:48:23.696-07:002015-08-09T16:48:23.696-07:00My sister is my landlord at the salon! she runs t...My sister is my landlord at the salon! she runs the family business and thank goodness it is a very, very full job. My parents, sister, and I all work in the same building. My parents and sister work together while I run my own operation under the same roof. My mom's office is right across from my salon. But my sister also sings in a band here in Columbus. She works more hours in a week with the band (her second job!) than I do in the salon. She does very well but has little time. We always say we wish we could meld our personalities into one balanced person. I never sacrifice my leisure time :) as I'm sure you feel as a teacher, when your job is to give a lot of yourself to your clients/students-it's important to stay fresh and inspired. Stephen Andrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00657698116552267561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5385735624350758337.post-17151827754546474152015-08-08T07:58:54.084-07:002015-08-08T07:58:54.084-07:00I totally understand!
Do you think it is because w...I totally understand!<br />Do you think it is because we are passionate about what we do?<br />I think we lose ourselves in the process and forget to stop and take a break and reassess how we are feeling...and by the time we are fatigued it is too late!!<br />Mother is doing well...the weather is a bit cooler so she can venture out and about a bit more now...the heat was really tiring her out. I am so grateful that she lives so close to us and we had a fun day! Thank you!!hostess of the humble bungalowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06453827257671312902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5385735624350758337.post-2366333088186905382015-08-08T07:54:01.808-07:002015-08-08T07:54:01.808-07:00Hi Charlene,
Welcome! I am not sure if you have co...Hi Charlene,<br />Welcome! I am not sure if you have commented here on my blog before...I love the name Charlene so you'd think I would remember.<br />I haven't tried that recipe yet...and I do like lentils.<br />I love grilled salmon atop French lentils...hostess of the humble bungalowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06453827257671312902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5385735624350758337.post-58635653804824081732015-08-08T07:50:22.866-07:002015-08-08T07:50:22.866-07:00I am saddened to read about the demise of your cat...I am saddened to read about the demise of your cat...it's a terrible time when we have to say goodbye to our beloved pets. I hope those wildflowers thrive and bloom. <br />Take care and be kind and gentle to yourself in this time of fragility...<br />XOhostess of the humble bungalowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06453827257671312902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5385735624350758337.post-69552372389585287742015-08-08T07:47:45.208-07:002015-08-08T07:47:45.208-07:00Knowing what you need to keep a balance is vital.....Knowing what you need to keep a balance is vital...oh and another book recommendation! Merci Madame!<br />hostess of the humble bungalowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06453827257671312902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5385735624350758337.post-21383590333032160692015-08-08T07:46:23.846-07:002015-08-08T07:46:23.846-07:00It's much better when we take breaks...I agree...It's much better when we take breaks...I agree.hostess of the humble bungalowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06453827257671312902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5385735624350758337.post-58180094492940546602015-08-08T07:45:55.180-07:002015-08-08T07:45:55.180-07:00I can see why you'd say that...it has been a m...I can see why you'd say that...it has been a marathon!hostess of the humble bungalowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06453827257671312902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5385735624350758337.post-40952758018327922972015-08-08T07:45:21.454-07:002015-08-08T07:45:21.454-07:00I adore my hairdresser and we have a lot in common...I adore my hairdresser and we have a lot in common...in my humble opinion, hairdressers are right up there with doctors. She and I can chat about anything and we both LOVE Paris, fabulous food, cooking, fashion and our families and we go out to dinner every so often together...it's a wonderful thing that hairdressers do...they make us feel so much more beautiful. <br />You have not mentioned what your sister does for a living but it sounds like it's more than a full time job. My husband has a stressful job too and it takes him awhile to unwind when we take holidays....that's why our boat is so important...he sleeps better when we are onboard and he relaxes much more quickly.<br />Dogs are great life "balancers" too...the love they give is unconditional and you can just feel your blood pressure dropping when they nuzzle up against you! <br />Hugs to Barbie.hostess of the humble bungalowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06453827257671312902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5385735624350758337.post-14405247201673951392015-08-08T00:46:30.695-07:002015-08-08T00:46:30.695-07:00Oh boy, oh boy, what a load of important questions...Oh boy, oh boy, what a load of important questions you ask. Although I always try to strike a balance, because of my life in two countries, I often fail miserably. There's so much to do for the short months that I'm in each that I often push myself past reasonable work amounts to over-doing it and then suffer what Robert calls "the two day rule" where I crash on the second day after a day of over-working. But then Robert is wonderfully attentive, knows me, and can easily sense when I'm a total gonner, and (lovingly) orders me to have a rest. <br /><br />He's just read this and pointed out that I haven't actually answered any of your questions, and I said, "It's OK, hostess is on the West Coast, she'll know exactly what I'm talking about." :D Hope you had a wonderful day out with your mother. I miss mine when I'm in E. Veronica Rothhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15288280932510764014noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5385735624350758337.post-71061015125134193222015-08-07T14:22:03.926-07:002015-08-07T14:22:03.926-07:00Glad to hear that you're taking a day off. It ...Glad to hear that you're taking a day off. It looks like you've been doing some really heavy- duty gardening lately. Your garden pictures are always so gorgeous but I know that takes a lot of work. I love David Lebovitz's books. My favorite recipe ( so far) in My Paris Kitchen is the one for French Lentil Salad. If you like lentils, be sure and try it. Charlenehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15148426728917494749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5385735624350758337.post-29384983390367752642015-08-06T16:42:50.752-07:002015-08-06T16:42:50.752-07:00Balancing my life sometimes means asking for help ...Balancing my life sometimes means asking for help when I need it. I've become less shy about that as I get older. <br /><br />Mme Mère had "une main verte," which is the French expression for a green thumb. I did not inherit her ability w/flowers and plants. You may remember, Leslie, that I was concerned about one of my cats not doing very well. We lost him two weeks ago. I'm just devastated. He was such a sweet little man. Yesterday, I planted wild flowers in the corner of our garden in his honor. I hope they will bloom.<br /><br />All my best,<br />M-TMarie-Thérèsehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06834644226980732441noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5385735624350758337.post-90008374307406468832015-08-06T16:01:30.349-07:002015-08-06T16:01:30.349-07:00From Margie in Toronto - I used to be terrible at ...From Margie in Toronto - I used to be terrible at the balancing act - it took me many years but I seem to be doing much better now. My current job is busy but I come in at 8:15am and I leave at 4:15pm and I'm home by 5pm. I try to do a bit of housework and laundry during the week so that the weekend is either completely free or I get up, do an hour of work or grocery shopping and then I'm free.<br />I make plans with friends and rarely say NO to some fun time - but I also plan time to myself as I need it in order to recharge the batteries. I know myself a lot better now and what is important to me. Everyone has certain obligations to meet but I no longer do things only out of obligation or worse, out of guilt.<br /><br />Thank you for the book recommendations - I love David's blog and own a few of his books - I'll have to check out some of the others.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5385735624350758337.post-73360885271505500952015-08-06T15:35:20.452-07:002015-08-06T15:35:20.452-07:00I need a lot of reading time and thinking time. Ho...I need a lot of reading time and thinking time. House cleaning and laundry take a couple hours of each day but time with friends and my mother are scheduled throughout the week. You might enjoy the book that I am reading right now:The Woman in the Photograph, set in Paris in the 1920's.Madame Là-bashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16703782237948233124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5385735624350758337.post-39522642719619537432015-08-06T14:11:12.745-07:002015-08-06T14:11:12.745-07:00I now find that scheduling myself a break, every d...I now find that scheduling myself a break, every day, from whatever I have queued up to get done, is imperative!LPChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18209861350905135093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5385735624350758337.post-505775582100718292015-08-06T13:30:45.422-07:002015-08-06T13:30:45.422-07:00Hmmm, I thought I commented but Blogger seems not ...Hmmm, I thought I commented but Blogger seems not to agree. Just said that I'm glad you're giving yourself a break as your gardening labour was exhausting me, even secondhand!materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5385735624350758337.post-59043547530978665772015-08-06T13:27:04.316-07:002015-08-06T13:27:04.316-07:00I do a pretty good job with balance I think. The k...I do a pretty good job with balance I think. The kind of work I do makes it easy. There are no ongoing projects to worry about nor deadlines hanging over my shoulders. Hairstylists have the highest rate of job satisfaction and I think it makes perfect sense. We laugh all day and make people feel beautiful...then turn off the lights and walk out with little stress. I think that makes clicking into "off" mode much easier. My sister has a much more demanding job that never quite ends. Always another email to answer or fire to be put out. She hardly knows what to do with a day off! Enjoy your day off! How helpful to keep those books around to inspire you when you need a dose. Stephen Andrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00657698116552267561noreply@blogger.com